Umntu ngamnye unaloo mizuzu ebomini, ekhumbulayo ngovuyo olukhethekileyo-amaxesha xa wayevuya. Abanye abantu banezihlandlo zolonwabo ngokukhawuleza, abanye - banokuzibala eminwe yabo. Kukho nawuphi na, ngamnye kuthi ufuna ukonwaba ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuba kuvela.
Ndingonwabile njani? Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamnye umfazi unelungelo lakhe lokufumana ulonwabo. Ubutyebi bezinto eziphathekayo, umsebenzi, ubomi bomntu - kubasetyhini abaninzi ezi zizathu ezibangela ulonwabo, oko ngelitshutshiso, akusoloko zifezeke lula.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi umfazi onwabileyo ovuselela uvuyo kunye nethemba unenhlanhla kwaye ukhangela iziganeko ezilungileyo. Kwimeko yokudakumba okanye uxinzelelo, amandla omfazi ahlahloke ngokuphawulekayo, kwaye oku kunempembelelo engalunganga kuyo nayiphi na indawo ebomini bethu. Ngoko ke kubalulekile, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, ukuzinika ixesha lonwabo novuyo. Kuvela ukuba oku akunzima kakhulu. Sizungezwe ngeenkulungwane zezinto kunye neziganeko ezinokumkholisa kunye nokuphakamisa isimo sengqondo. Into ephambili kukuba ufunde ukuzibona.
Ngona suku oludabukisayo nolunelusizi unokufumana izizathu zonwabo. Kwaye zonke iintlungu ziya kuvela kwimvelaphi, kwaye ingxaki nganye isisombululo.
Ngoko, izizathu ezili-10 zonwaba imihla ngemihla:
- Qalisa ngokusazela wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho. Ukusebenzisa okulula kukuvumela ukuba udibanise umtsalane ovelayo ukususela kusasa.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthetha amazwi okubonga. Siyabonga abahlobo bakho, izalamane, osebenza nabo, usuku nosuku, imozulu ehle kunye nayo yonke into ovuyayo ngayo. Kuhlala kunomdla kubo abazungezile ukuva amazwi anomusa, kwaye uya kuziva uvuyo ngokuvuyisa abanye.
- Funda ukuzonwabisa rhoqo ngemini yemihla, nokuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Ukuba usebenza kakuhle, kuya kusebenza kangcono, kwaye uya kuneliswa ziziphumo.
- Nika ingqalelo emzimbeni wakho nangomphefumlo wakho. Yenza okungaphezu kwexesha lokuthanda kwakho, thola umdlalo, uzenze ngaphezulu. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, bhalisela nayiphi na iikhosi okanye kwi-gym. Ngenyanga uza kuziva uphilile kwaye uyonwabile.
- Zama ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu. Kwimeko yomntu ngamnye, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho abantu abanenhlanhla. Funda ukuzonwabisa ngokuchanekileyo kwiziphumo zakho uze uqhathanise iziphumo zanamuhla ngeeyure.
- Ukudibana nabantu. Sakhetha lwethu isangqa soqhagamshelwano kwaye kukho ithuba lokunyusa. Yiba neentlalontle kwaye uvulekele olwalamano olutsha - oku kuya kwandisa i-horizons yakho, kufunda ezininzi izinto ezintsha kwaye wenze abahlobo abatsha.
- Funda ukuxolela ngokulula. Akukho nto idonsa ubomi bethu njengezikhalazo ezindala. Ukubavumela ukuba bahambe, uya kuziva ukhululekile kwaye uyonwabile.
- Funda ukujonga izinto ezincinci. Okusondeleyo kukho izinto ezininzi ezimangalisayo, ngasinye sinokubangela ukuba uvuyo. Sonke siphila kwisigqi sokuzilahla, kwaye kukho ixesha elaneleyo,
ukuma kwaye ukhangele. Jabulela imvelo, ukuhamba, ilanga nenyanga, indlela enhle ngayo kunye nenhlanhla. - Yazisa imizuzu edluliselwe kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho. Ukunxibelelana nabo ngumthombo ongcono weemvakalelo ezintle kunye nokubonakala. Jabulela abathandekayo bakho, banomdla kwimicimbi yabo, ukuba kunokwenzeka, bancede-konke oku kuya kufumana kubo ngokubuyisela.
- Zinike wena, abathandekayo nezipho. Nangona i-trinket encinci, eboniswa uthando, inako ukunika ixesha lonwabo.
Ukuthatha le mi sebenzi elula kangangoko kunokwenzeka, uya kufunda imihla ngemihla ukufumana izizathu zokuziva uvuya.