Ukwazi umjikelezo wakho kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye kungekhona kuphela kulabo abafuna ukukhulelwa. Oku kuncedo ekuqaliseni iintsuku "ezinobungozi" kunye "ezikhuselekileyo," kunye nokuxilongwa kwezifo ezahlukeneyo kunye nokuphazamiseka emsebenzini wenkqubo yokuzala isetyhini.
Ngendlela eyiyo ukubala ubude bomjikelezo wesini?
Ngoko, okokuqala, machaze ukuba ubude (ubude buni) bomjikelo. Enyanisweni, le yimihla yeentsuku phakathi kweenyanga ezimbini.
Ukuze uqonde kangcono indlela yokubala ubude bomjikelezo wesini, khawuqwalasele lo mzekelo. Ukuba ukuqala kokuya esikhathini, yithi, ngo-Oktobha 28, kwaye ngexesha elizayo ukuya kwinyanga kuya kuNovemba 26, ngoko umjikelezo wakho unentsuku ezingama-30. Kule meko, usuku lokuqala lo mjikelo ngumhla wama-28.10, kwaye umhla wokugqibela ngowama-25.11, kuba i-26.11 sele isiqalo somjikelezo olandelayo.
Kufuneka ikhunjulwe ingqalelo ukuba ubude bokuphuma kwegazi ngokwalo abuchaphazeli ukubalwa kobude bomjikelezo. Akunandaba, ubude beentsuku ezi-3, i-5 okanye i-7-yesikimu sokubalwa komjikelezo wesini, kusekho okufanayo.
Kwakhona kaninzi ngabafazi banombuzo, ukuba njani, ukuba iinyanga zifike emva kokuhlwa-ukubhekisela kwesi siganeko kumhla okanye ngokulandelayo. Iyabonakala ngokubanzi phakathi kwezilwanyana zezilwanyana ukuba kwimeko enjalo ngosuku lokuqala lomjikelezo kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo kwixesha elizayo lekhalenda.
Ukuba ufanele ubone ugqirha, umzekelo, ngosuku lwesithathu emva kokufika kokuya esikhathini, akufanele uwunaki. Kwaye ukubala lo mhla kulula, ukhokelwa yikimu echazwe ngasentla. Kulo mzekelo, lo mhla uya kuba ngo-Oktobha 30 - ngosuku lwesithathu emva kokuqala kokuya esikhathini.
Ngokumalunga nobude bomyinge womjikelezo wokuya esikhathini, njengoko kuyaziwa, loo mqondo ukhona - unako ukubala ngokufaka isamba semigangatho emininzi kwaye uhlukanise ngenani labo.