Ebudaleni, into ebaluleke kakhulu ifunyenwe yinkqubo yobudlelwane kunye nommandla ojikelezayo kunye nentlalo, okuza kuthi ibeke ulawulo lwengqondo yengqondo yomntwana. Ukubonakaliswa kobutsha kuyamiselwa kwiimeko ezithile zentlalo kunye nangokutshintsha indawo yentombazana kuluntu. Umntwana osemncinini ungena kumtshato omtsha kunye nehlabathi elidala, ngoko ke, isikhundla sakhe kwintlalo, kwisikolo, kwishintsho kwisitalato. Kwintsapho, unikwe imisebenzi enoxanduva, kwaye yena ngokwakhe uzama ukwenza imisebenzi "yabantu abadala", ukukopisha indlela abaziphatha ngayo abadala. Injongo yombono wendawo yengingqi yoluntu iquka ubuninzi beentsebenzo ezakhiweyo kuluntu, iingcamango nezindinganiso ezijolise ekuphuhlisweni komntu ngamnye. Ukunxibelelana kwimeko yentlalo, abatsha abasakhulayo benza iinjongo, iinjongo kunye neendlela zokuziphatha, ukuphuhlisa indlela yokuvavanya yona kunye nabanye.
Ubume bentlalo yabaselula - isicwangciso
| Oselula | |
|---|---|
| ↙ ngoLwesithathu olulandelayo (intsapho, izalamane, abahlobo, afunda nabo) | ↘ kwimiba emide (abamelwane, abeendaba, i-Intanethi, abafundi besikolo) |
| ↓ inefuthe ngqo (unxibelelwano, intetho, izenzo, umzekelo ngamnye) | ↓ unempembelelo ngqo (amahemuhemu, ukudluliselwa, izenzo) |
Kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo esikolweni nakwikhaya, indawo elandelayo inempembelelo enkulu kwizenzo, iingcinga kunye nembono yentsholongwane: uphulaphula uluvo lwabazali, uxubusha kakuhle nabahlobo. Ukuba intombazana engayifumani ingqiqo phakathi kwabantu abasendaweni engqongileyo, ngoko imimandla ekude (ihlabathi labangamaziyo) inokuchaphazela kakhulu ingqondo, imbono kunye nokuziphatha komntwana osemtsha kunabantu abavela kwisangqa sangaphakathi. Okuqhubekayo kwishumi elivisayo kukho isangqa soxubusho, kungaphantsi kwethemba kumvavanyo. Abazali okanye isikolo, esinesizathu esithile sokulahlekelwa ukuthembeka kwintsha-ntwana, bangaphaya kwesangqa sokuthembela kwakhe.
Impembelelo yengingqi yentlalo kwiintsholongwane
Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuxhomekeka kwintsholongwane kuluntu kubonakala ngathi kunokwenzeka. Ngazo zonke izenzo zakhe nezenzo, umntwana usemntwini ujolise ekuhlaleni.
Ngenxa yobume kunye nokuqatshelwa, abantwana abaselula bayenza imibingelelo yokukhawuleza, bangene ekuxabaneni nabantu abasondeleyo, batshintshe iimpawu zabo.
Indalo yentlalo ingaba nomthelela kumntwana osemtsha, kokubili ngokuqinisekileyo nangokungafanelekanga. Umlinganiselo wempembelelo kwimeko yentlalo kuxhomekeke kwigunya labathathi-nxaxheba kunye nentsha.
| Mpe mbelelo | Mpe mbelelo |
|---|---|
| • Ezemidlalo, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yoluntu, izinto ezithandwayo; | • Ukufunyanwa kwemikhwa emibi (ukutshaya, utshwala); |
| • ukusekwa kobudlelwano bobuhlobo; | • ukufumana nokuphuhlisa iimpawu zomntu ezimbi; |
| • ukufumana nokuphuhlisa iimpawu zomntu ezilungileyo; | • ukulinganisa iinkokeli ezingaqhelekanga; |
| • Ukuphuculwa kwezifundo. | • ukuhlaziywa kwezifundo. |
Impembelelo yokunxibelelana nabaontanga kwiintsholongwane
Ethetha ngempembelelo yemo yentlalo ekubunjweni komntu kunye nokuziphatha kwentombazana, umntu kufuneka acinge ngento ethile yokuthetha noontanga.
Uluhlu lubalulekile ngezizathu ezininzi:
- umthombo wolwazi;
- ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu;
- ukudibana.
Imbonakalo yangaphandle yokuziphatha yokuthetha isekelwe kwimibhikisho: ngakwesinye icala intombazana ifuna ukuba "njengabantu bonke," kwaye kwenye, kuzo zonke iindleko, ifuna ukuma kwaye iphumelele.
Impembelelo yokunxibelelana nabazali kwiintsholongwane
Ekufikeni kwentsha, inkqubo yokukhululwa komntwana osemtsha evela kubazali iqala kwaye inqanaba elithile lokuzimela lifezekile. Kwixesha lokuguquka, ukuxhomekeke kwimiba yokuxhomekeka kubazali kuqala ukuxubusha kwintsholongwane, kwaye ufuna ukwakha inkqubo entsha yobudlelwane, i-center apho eya kuba yedwa. Ulutsha luyifumene inkqubo yabo yemilinganiselo, edlalwa ngokungafaniyo naleyo abazali abahambelana nayo. Ngombulelo ulwazi oluqokelelwayo kunye namava, umntwana osemva unesidingo esibalulekileyo sokwazisa ngobuntu bakhe nendawo yakhe phakathi kwabantu.
Ukuncedisa umntwana ukuba alungelelanise ngempumelelo uluntu, indawo efanelekileyo kufuneka iguquke kwaye ihlakaniphe.