Indlela yokwenza umama unothuka?

Uthando lomama kubantwana luhlabelelwa kwiingoma ezininzi kwaye luthetha malunga nemisebenzi eyahlukileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho izinto ezinamaqhawe, uvuyo nentlungu kubantwana babo neentombi. Kodwa into encinci kuthiwa ngothando lwabantwana abancinci kubazali babo, kwaye kungekhona ngenxa yokuba bengakakwazi ukuthetha ngawo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba uvuyo olukhulu kunabo bonke oomama nootata baziswa ngokuziphatha kwabo kakuhle kunye nezenzo zabo eziziqhenkcezayo. Indlela yokwenza umamangalisa umama, ngoko wamangaliswa - ezinye iingcamango esiza kukunika kule nqaku.

Ukusebenza ngokugqibeleleyo kwezemfundo kunye nekhaya loncedo

Ukuziphatha kakuhle, amabakala aphezulu esikolweni - yilapho ungakwazi ukuqala ukumangalisa umama wakho ngokuphepha. Abazali bahlala bevuyiswa xa abantwana babo badunyiswa ngabafundisi. Ukongezelela, umama unokwenza umangaliso onjalo, into engayilindeleyo: ukuthatha inxaxheba yemithwalo yakhe yemfanelo, okwenziwa nguMama kwindlu, umzekelo:

Ukongezelela, musa ukulibala malunga nezibonda, apho umntwana ehamba khona. Uhlobo olunjani lokumangalisa onokuyenza kumama kule meko kuxhomekeke kwinto efunyanwa yinkwenkwe. Unokufunda ingoma okanye imbongo uze utshilo ngokuhlwa xa ebuya evela emsebenzini; ubonise intshukumo entsha, eyinkimbinkimbi ukusuka kumdaniso okanye ukulwa, kunye nokubika ukuba uyamenywa ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwikhonsathi okanye ukhuphiswano.

Indlela yokwenza umama uzothuka?

Enyanisweni, kubantwana abathandayo, umzekelo, ukudlala nomklami ombane, unokwenza i-vase okanye isongo kumama wakho, ukudibanisa iindonga ezininzi ngendlela yokuluka kakuhle. Ukongezelela, kuya kumangaliswa yinkqutyana yamaqabunga ekwindla okanye iintyatyambo zasendle, ziboshwe ngebhebhoni enhle kwaye zenziwa ngomsindo.

Kodwa ngombuzo wendlela enokumangalisa ngayo into enokumangalisa ngayo oomama abasenkulumeni abantwana ngezandla zabo, ootitshala bayaphendula: bhala umfanekiso, apho uya kuboniswa khona, enze ikhadi leposi, okanye ukuxelisa i -plastiki okanye isebenzise. Ewe, zonke izipho kufuneka zihanjiswe kumama ngamazwi apho kuya kuthiwa yinkwenkwe yenze yona ngokukhethekileyo.

Ngoko, yinto emangalisayo yokwenza umama ofanayo, kukhethwa kwimeko nganye. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba yenziwe ngothando kunye nomnqweno wokumangaliswa ngokuzonwabisa.