Ukuba umntu ubona ulwandle ephupheni, kwaye ufuna ukuqonda ukuba lithini ibali, kufuneka akhumbule zonke iinkcukacha zephupha lakhe. Kwiincwadi ezahlukeneyo zephupha, inkcazo yento okumele iphuphe ngayo, ukuba umntu uhlamba elwandle, kuxhomekeka kwiimbali ezahlukeneyo zebali zokulala. Ngokomzekelo, kubalulekile, kwakukhona amaza, okanye ulwandle lwaluzolile kwaye lubonakalise njengesibuko.
Ukuphupha kwiphupha kwaye ugibele kuyo-ukutolika
Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha elikulo lolwandle kwaye ngelixa lidada elwandle okanye elwandle, lithembisa ukuba ubomi bakhe butshintsha. Ngokuqhelekileyo baya kudibana nobomi bomntu okanye intsapho.
Ukulala, apho ahlamba khona elwandle olucacileyo, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala unokulinda umyalezo ovuyayo kumntu othandekayo. Iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukuba intsapho yentsapho okanye ubomi bobuqu buza kuba yimpumelelo kwixesha elizayo kwaye akukho mfazwe kulindeleke. Iphupha apho intombazana ihlamba elwandle elingcolileyo, ngokuchaseneyo, lithembisa iziganeko ezizayo kunye nokuxabana. Esi sisilumkiso esithetha ukuba kufuneka ube yingqiqo kwaye uzame ukufumana ukulungelelanisa xa kwenzeka ingxabano .
Ukuba iphupha malunga nendlela umfazi ahlamba ngayo elwandle ngamaza, elide lilibalekile kusasa, kuyimfuneko ukulindela ixesha eliphambili eliphambili ebomini. Inokuxhunyezwa kokubili kunye nobunzima bezimali, kunye neengxabano zentsapho. Ukuba ngelo xesha intombazana yakwazi ukuhamba ngexesha lokulala okanye ifumene ukuba uncedo luza kufika ngokukhawuleza, ngoko imeko iya kusombulula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ilahlekelwe yilahleko. Kwimeko apho intombazana ivakalelwa ephupheni yona encinci okanye ingakhuselekanga, kuyimfuneko yokwesaba loo nto ebomini bodwa kungekho iinguqu ezintle kakhulu.
Kuthetha ntoni ephupheni ukugebha elwandle kumntu?
Ukuba le phupha liphupha indoda, ibonisa ukungaqiniseki kwakhe kumfazi okanye intombi yakhe. Ngokukodwa ukuba amanzi elwandle ayinasiphelo okanye isiphepho. Kwakhona kaninzi iphupha libikezela ubunzima bezemisebenzi, umzekelo, ukubonakala komqhubi okanye ukungaphumeleli.
Xa ephupheni amanzi ayezolile, kwaye ukuhlamba kwakumnandi, kuyafaneleka ukulinda ukuqala kwenkathi yokuthula ebomini. Kuwuphawu lokuba ixesha lifikile xa umntu ekwazi ukuphumla aze athathe i-hobby. Yonke imiba yomsebenzi kunye neengxaki zentsapho ziza kusombululwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye zinemizamo encinane okanye akukho nanye.
Ukuba kwiphupha elinjalo umntu akayena yedwa emanzini, ngoko ebomini bakhe umncedisi uza kubonakala kungekudala oza kuthatha zonke iingxaki.