Kukho isibonakaliso esinye kuphela sokuchaneka okanye ukungalunganga kwebalinganiswa bethu - oku kuyonwabile . Ukuba izenzo zethu zikhokelela kulonwabo, akukho nto iyakhathazeka ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, kuncinane kakhulu kuye kwaba kwihlabathi lonwabo. Ngoku kuqhelekileyo ukuba amakhwenkwe namantombazana akhuliswe ngeempawu eziqhelekileyo, kwaye ngenxa yoko, i-half-women and half-men are found. Kwaye phakathi kwe-"ihafu-intliziyo" ekhulile kunokuba kukho ukungqubana kwamalungelo kunye neembopheleleko kwiintsebenziswano.
Kule nkalo, abantu bazama ukuzimisela (kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukuphuhlisa) iimpawu zobume bomlingane nomfazi. Emva kwakho konke, indlela yodwa yokuvumelanisa ulwalamano lwakho kukuthatha isithuba esichazwe ngaphambili ngengqondo yengqondo yomntu.
Ukwahlula ngeenkwenkwezi
Ngeenkwenkwezi, ukungahambelani kwabalingani bomtshato kuchazwe yinyaniso yokuba indoda nomfazi bahlukeneyo kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobuntu. Kukho ezimbini kuphela iintlobo ngeenkwenkwezi-zengqondo kunye neengqiqo. Uhlobo lwamavakalelo lubalwa njengeCancer, i-Pisces, i-Scorpions, i-Aries, iStreltsov, i-Lviv. Ukuqonda, ngokulandelanayo, iKapricorn, iTaurus, iGemini, Virgo, Libra, Aquarius. Ukudibaniswa kwabantu abambalwa abavela "kwiimbali" ezahlukeneyo kubangela ukungquzulana.
Ngenxa yoko, abasetyhini bakhononda ukungahloniphi kwabantu, ukuba umfazi uvela kumgca wenyama, kwaye indoda iyaqiqa. Kwaye ngokuthe ngqo.
Psychology of incompatibility
Xa abantu batshatile, sele sele beqalile, iimpawu ezinzulu, iimpawu, iimbonakalo. Kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi obudibeneyo, ukungafani kwesibini kubonakalisiwe, kwaye le mihluko, kwizinga elinye okanye enye, ikhona kuzo zonke, nokuba zihambelana kakhulu, abantu.
Naluphi na uhlobo lomlingani, umfazi nomyeni, abantu baqala ukulungelelanisa ngokubanzi okanye ngaphantsi kwempumelelo. Le nkqubo nayiphi na imeko ibangela ukungquzulana , ukuhlambalaza, ukuxabana, kunye namaxesha e-ofisi yeengqondo.
Kwiengqondo zineengxaki ezine eziqhelekileyo "ezidibeneyo" zibini:
- Ukungabikho kokuqonda ngokusemthethweni ukungakwazi kwabantu ukuqonda imbono yomnye, okanye ukungakwazi kwabo ukubonisa ubungqina babo;
- ukungafani kweembono kwimibandela efuna uluvo olufanayo kwintsapho - okokuqala, ingxaki yokukhetha inkulu, intloko yentsapho;
- ukungahambelani nabalinganiswa - nayiphi na inyathelo, amagama omlingane amcaphukisa iqabane lakhe;
- ukungahambelani kwemikhwa nezenzo zamalingani - izenzo kunye nezenzo zomnye womtshato abathintela (ngokuzithandela okanye ngokungazi) ukufezekiswa kweenjongo ezisetyenziswe elinye iqabane.
IVedas
Kodwa iiVedas ngokukhawuleza zikhangelekile: empuma ithetha malunga nokuba yiziphi iimpawu ezifanelekileyo zohlobo lomlingane kunye neqabane lakho. Oko kukuthi, yintoni-umgangatho wesifazane, kwaye loo-yindoda.
- I-Asceticism - oko kukuthi, ukuxhamla. Ngokutsho kweVedas, oku kungumgangatho wesintu kuphela. Ngokukhawuleza xa ibhinqa lihlala kwindawo yokuhlala, i-hormone yayo yabhinqa iyatshatyalaliswa. Abasetyhini kufuneka benze konke ngokuzonwabisa (baze bavuke ngo-5 ekuseni). Nangona kunjalo, i-asceticism inceda ukuxazulula iingxaki. Isizathu sokuxhaswa komfazi singaba ngumyeni. Ukuba iqabane lilele embhedeni yonke imihla, ejongene nebhokisi, loo nto ibhinqa livakalelwa kukuba intsapho iyisigxina, kwaye iya kuba yinto yokuxhamla.
- Ukunyaniseka kunye nokuvuleka kuyimpawu zobuntu besifazane. Kuvela ukuba xa umfazi evula iingcinga zakhe kumyeni wakhe, ugcina intsapho. Umlingane obonakalisa iingcamango zakhe kunye nokwesaba kwenza indoda ixhomekeke kuye. Akakwazi ukuhamba ngakwesobunxele, ukuqamba amanga, uvila, kuba uya kuhlushwa yintliziyo yecala phambi kokungcola nokunyaniseka komfazi wakhe.
- Ukuthobeka kuwuphawu lomlingani womyeni. Ukuzinza kukhula ngaphandle kokuzithemba, le ntlungu ebandayo.
- Uxolo lufana nesifazana sokuthula. IPasifique ikhula yintlalo, kwaye ithetha ukuvumelanisa.