Kukho ezimbalwa izidalwa ezingenabubele njengentlanzi ehlabathini. Bakha buhlungu baze babonakale behlazo. Akungabazeki ukuba impendulo kumbuzo wokuthi iifenja inja ephuphayo, nayo, ayiyi kukukholisa ithemba eliqaqambileyo. Ezi zilwanyana azikwazi ukuthwala nantoni na.
Enyanisweni, ukuba kwenzeka ukuba ubone iphupha, njengeentambo ezixhamla kwinja nokubetha isilwanyana - akukho nto imnandi ukukulindela ayimfuneko. Inokwenzeka ukuba, kuya kuthetha ukugula komhlobo, emva kwayo yonke inja ehlala ephupheni labangane. Iintlobo zingathetha kwaye nje uhlobo oluthile lwenkathazo oluya kwenzeka kubathandekayo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukubona iintambo kwijaji?
Ukuba kwakufuneka ubone intlanzi kwinja ephupheni, kwaye isilwanyana sibabamba kwaye siyabatshabalalisa, ngoko iphupha lingaqwalaselwa lifanelekileyo. Xa kukho nayiphi na ingxaki, abasondeleyo beliphupha abayi kumshiya enkingeni kwaye baya kuzimela ngokuzithandela. Kwaye kuyaziwa ukuba unokuhlangabezana nayo nayiphi na ingxaki kunye.
Kwimeko apho inja ingabambi iifubhi, kodwa igalela nje kubo, ukulala kubonisa intlungu yomona. Uvakalelo olunjalo luya kubangela inhlanhla kumntu owaziyo. Ayikho into emnandi kakhulu iphupha, apho lowo uphuphayo ngokwakhe ebhubhisa intlanzi kumhlobo onobunzima. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka ajongane neengxaki zomntu ebomini bokwenene. Inkathazo ayisoloko imnandi kakhulu, kwaye ukuba unengxaki zabanye abantu, kwaye kungekhona eyakho, kufuneka ube ne-razrulivat, ngoko ke, oku akubi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, emva kwakho konke, thina simthanda umntu xa umntu encedisayo, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka simncede abahlobo bethu.
Ukuba iifensi ziyagxuma phezu kwenja, le phupha li thembisa inkunkuma yezemali engacwangciswanga. Mhlawumbi, sithetha ngesidingo sokuthenga i-shampoo yesilwanyana kwiifere. Yiba nokuba kunjalo, umphuphi uya kufuneka abe nenxalenye yemali. Kodwa emva kokuthenga konke kunokuphumelela, ngoko akufanelekile ukuzisola kakhulu kule meko.