Sekuninzi isithando sithathwa njengomntu wentsapho, ukufudumala nokuthuthuzela, ngoko ezininzi ukutolika kweliphupha kubhekisela ngqo kwimicimbi yentsapho ephathelele isangqa esincinci yabantu. NgokukaFreud, uyisimboli sezesondo, kwaye ngoko unesigxina sesini. Isitofu siyaphupha ntoni - kweli nqaku.
Yintoni isitofu endlwini ephuphayo?
Kwiincwadi ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha iphupha elinikeziwe lichazwa ngokuhlukileyo. Nazi iincwadi eziqhelekileyo:
- Ukujonga emlilweni kunye neengqungquthela kwiindawo zokuhlala zihlala zinovuyo lwentsapho . Ngoko ke, abo banomdla kwizinto ezithandwayo ngomlilo ngomlilo, kuyafaneleka ukuba sitsho ukuba kulungile kunye nobudlelwane obuhle nomyeni wakhe. Ihabhoni elibomvu lithembisa uthando lwesiqingatha sesibini kunye nobuhlobo bentliziyo kunye nabahlobo. Kodwa ngo-Freud, oku ku thembisekwa ngumnwaba onomdla ogcwele "umlilo", nangona oku akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi kumthandi: ujikelezo olutsha kulwalamano luya kuhamba kunye nomlingane wangaphambili.
- Abo banomdla kwiiventi zokupholisa zaseRashiya eziphuphayo, ungaphendula ukuba ukupholisa ngobudlelwane nomntu wakho othandekayo, kwaye ukuba ithe yawa, ke ukuzahlukana, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo ekufeni. Kwezinye iinguqulelo, kukho enye inkcazo yale nto, enxulumene neengxaki, iimpazamo, ukudumala okwethutyana kunye nobunzima.
- Hlaza kwivini lephupha - ukutshintsha, kunokwenzeka ukuba mnandi. Isohlwayo ilungiselela ukujika entsha, yintoni isitofu sephupha esitshisayo.
- Ukutshisa ngesitofu esibomvu kuya kuhlaselwa kwaye ugxeke. Mhlawumbi, ukubetha kuza kuvela kulabo abangalindelanga oku.
- Isakhiwo esiwayo sokupheka izithembiso zilahleko ezingakaze zenzeke. Ukulahleka kunokuba kukukhulu kakhulu, oko kukuthi kuphela okufunekayo kunokwaneleyo.
- Isithandle esiqhekekileyo ukuze sibone, ngoko unokulindela ukungavumelani kwimicimbi yentsapho, ukuxhatshazwa kunye nezikhalazo phakathi kwabantwana nomyeni wakhe.
- Ukuba umntu uya kupheka into ethile, le nhlanhla.
- Umenzi wesitofu endlwini - kwiindaba ezimbi, kodwa ukuba usebenza, ngoko sinokugqiba ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntu uza kubonakala kwindalo oza kunceda ukuqala ishishini elitsha, liya kuqala. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kuthatha inzame enkulu ukuyizalisa.
- Ukushiswa kwi-oven baking foreshadows ukuhluleka. Iphupha elinjalo linokuthi litshintshwe njengomona, ukuxabana phakathi kwabatshatileyo ngenxa yokulwa.
- Ukuhlala ngesitofu eshisayo, ngoko ngokwenene, ukucwangcisa uhambo. Kukho indlela ende ehamba phambili, mhlawumbi nokuhamba, okuthembisa ukuhlukana kubantu abasondeleyo nabathandekayo.