Mhlawumbi akukho nto iphikisanayo kwaye izaliswe ngamangqina kunye neengcamango ezinokunyamekela umntwana kunokuncelisa. Ngokukodwa ingxabano kunye ngamanye amaxesha kunye neengxabano, umbuzo wobude bawo, okuthi, ukubaluleka emva konyaka kunye nakubini. Lo mcimbi ukhula ngamandla kwiminyaka yakutshanje, xa oomama abancinci bancedisa ukufikelela kwiinkcukacha kwaye banethuba lokufuna uncedo nenkxaso yabacebisi abaqeqeshwe ngokukhethekileyo. Kodwa kubonakala ngathi abachasayo besondlo abasisigxina abaxhasayo, nangona iingxabano zabo zingabonakaliyo kwaye zihlanganiselwe kwiindinyana ezininzi.
Akukho ngcamango yembono kunye neenjongo kulo mbandela, kodwa kweli nqaku siza kuxela malunga neenzuzo eziphambili kunye nokungalunganga kokuncelisa kunyaka ukuya kwiminyaka eyi-3, eyona nto iqulethwe ngeengcamango ezingalunganga. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka baqwalaselwe ukuze benze uluvo lwabo kunye nokwakha umgangatho wokuziphatha.
Ukuncelisa ukuza kufikelela kwiminyaka emithathu
- ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana, ubisi buba "luncedo", oko kuthetha ukuba inkqubo yokondla ilahlekelwa yinto ebalulekileyo kwaye iyakwazi "ukuphazamiseka." Nangona kunjalo, ukusetyenziswa kobisi lwebele emva kweenyanga ezili-12 zokutya akuzange kufundwe ngokwaneleyo, ngoko akukho ugqirha onokuqiniseka okanye ukuphikisa le ngcamango;
- Ukunyamezela ixesha elide kukuchaphazela kakubi i-bite - ayinakuvunywa. Ngaphezu koko, i-pacifier-dummy, edla ngokubakho imfuneko yokuba umntwana okhulelwe kususwe, uyathintela ukuluma kakhulu;
- umntwana uya kulahlwa emva kokuphuhliswa kwengqondo nangokwengqondo - ukungaqondi kakuhle, ngokucacileyo kuhambelana nokunyelwa ukuba uncelungelo lomntwana osemncinci kuphela, ngoko zonke iintsana ezidla amabele "azizange zihambe kude" kule meko;
- umntwana uya kuhlakulela ukuchaneka ngokwesondo okungalunganga - ngakumbi kubafana. Le ngqungquthela yabantu abangaboniyo-ngengqondo, abazenza izigqibo ezihlambalazayo, ukufihla emva kwegama elithi "zonke iingxaki ezisuka ebuntwaneni," aluphi na ukugxeka;
- Ngoko umntwana ufunda ukuxhaphaza unina aze ahlawule. Imvelo kunye nemikhwa yokuziphatha yomntwana ixhomekeka ngakumbi kwimfundo, kwaye ukuncelisa kuyindlela eyodwa yokusondelana ngokomzwelo. Ukwesaba "kakhulu" ukuzisa umntwana wakho kufuphi nawe, mhlawumbi, uvela kwi-Soviet ngokoqobo, xa oomama babengenalo ithuba lokuhlala kwisimiselo ixesha elide kwaye kukho isidingo sokungena kwinkonzo ngokukhawuleza. Ixesha liye langena ekugqibeleni, kwaye iziganeko zokukhuliswa kwabantwana zisaphila;
- "Ukhathala" komzimba kamama mhlawumbi kuyona kuphela isizathu esinikwe ukuxilisa ixesha elide. Ukuveliswa komlambo kudinga umzamo omkhulu kunye noxinzelelo lwazo zonke izibonelelo, ngoko ke, ngokutya okunokwaneleyo, impilo enempilo kunye nokubonakala kungabandezeleka - ukungabikho kwamavithamini kuya kuchaphazela kakubi imeko yesikhumba, iinwele , njl.
Iinkqubo zokuncelisa kunyaka ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu
- Ubisi lwebele luqukethe izinto ezininzi ezincedo, kunye ne-immunoglobulins yomzimba womama, ochaphazela ngokufanelekileyo impilo yabantwana. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kubantwana abanezifo ezizalwe ngumzimba kunye nokunyameka kokuphendula;
- ukwaneliseka kwengcamango esondayo, esebenzayo kubantwana malunga neminyaka emine. Ngaloo ndlela, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabandakanyi ukusondeza kweminwe, i-pacifiers kunye nezinye "izitishi" ezingafanelekanga;
- Ukunyamezela ixesha elide kuncedisa ekuqiniseni ukudibanisa -uxhulumano lomama phakathi komama nomntwana kunye nohlobo lokubonakalisa uthando;
- ukulungeleka - emva kokuba ubisi bonyaka asinaso isondlo saso, ngokokuthi akusayi kuthatha indawo yokutya komntwana, nangona kunjalo, le ndlela yindlela yokuphuza "ukutya okuphambili. Ukongezelela, isifuba isilungiso "soxolo" sobonke - umntwana esesifubeni uyayeka ukukhala, aze alele;
- Ukuncelisa ixesha elide kukuthintela kakuhle izifo "zeentlobo", ngokukodwa - umdlavuza webele.