Oku kungabonakala kungaqhelekanga, kodwa inani elininzi labamama abalindayo banokungabikho kokuzaliseka kweengcinga zabo zesini kunye neminqweno. Nangona kunjalo, bambalwa abantu abakulungele ukuxoxa ngeengxaki ezintle kunye nomyeni wabo okanye umntu osondeleyo. Nantsi ihlala ifuna impendulo kwi-intanethi, okanye ibeke uxolo unelisekile.
Izizathu zokuba ibhinqa liqala ukuhlambalaza ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ngokumangalisayo, ii-hormone ezikhoyo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, amadoda. Inqanaba lokuqala lihlala lihla, elibonakaliswa ukwanda rhoqo okanye ukuncipha kwi-libido yowesifazane okhulelweyo. Ewe, abo bahambayo banokwesaba ukulimaza umntwana, ukungena kwisini kunye nomfazi okhulelweyo, okanye ukukhokelwa ezinye iinkolelo zakhe. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ibhinqa ekho konke akulula, kwaye iqala ukucinga ngokuthe ngakumbi malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka yini ukuhlambalaza ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Siza kuzama ukuqwalasela imeko kumacala onke.
Ngaba abafazi abakhulelweyo bangabahlambalaza?
Lo msebenzi unokuzuza ngokulinganayo kokubi nakwenzakalo. Kanye kunye nesondo, i-masturbation ivelisa ukukhunjulwa kwe-ogia kunye nokwaneliseka, okubaluleke kakhulu kwimeko yengqondo yowesifazane esesikhundleni. Kodwa ukukhenkcoza kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo kunokwenzeka kuphela ekungabikho kokuphikisana, isiseko esilinganayo, esifanelekileyo, okanye i-orgasm. Inyaniso kukuba ukuba kukho isongelo sokukhulelwa kwesisu, i- orgasm ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunokukhupha ithoni yeendonga zesisu kunye nokuhanjiswa kwangethuba. Ngokukodwa kukuxhalabisa i-clitoris ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ngenxa yokuba iziphumo ezifunyenwe ngenxa yoko zibukhali kwaye zigqamile, ngoko ke ziyingozi ngakumbi kule nkalo. Ngaphandle koko, isifundo esinomdla siyamkeleka kuphela.
Ngaba luncedo kangakanani ukukhwabanisa kwabafazi abakhulelweyo?
Amandla esondo, awamabhinqa abakhulelweyo abanzi ngokwaneleyo, kufuneka afumane indlela yokuphuma. Imiphumo encinci yokungabikho kweso sinokuba ngamaphupha okuxutywa kwe-erotic, i-neuroses, iingcinezelo kunye nokutshabalalisa kwimeko yengqondo. Ngako oko, umnqweno wokukrhoxela ngexesha lokukhulelwa akufanele nje kubangele ukwesaba, kodwa luncedo. Ukuba umyeni uvele nje ephazamisekile kwimisebenzi yakhe okanye akukho mfundi ofanelekileyo, ngoko kufuneka umntu athathe impilo yakhe yengqondo ezandleni zakhe, ngokoqobo ngokoqobo! Ukungabikho kwesini kunye ne-orgasm kubangela ukunyuka kwegazi kwiimbumba ze-pelvis encinci, ekwahlukana neengxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo. Ngendlela ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kukuchaphazela ukukhulelwa, unokugweba ubuncinane ukuba ukuphucula ukujikeleza kwegazi kuvumela i-oxygen kunye nezinto eziwusizo ukuba ziqhubekele kumntwana ngokugqithisa kwi-placenta.
Indlela yokwenza i-masturbate ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Musa ukuyikholelwa, kodwa apha kukho ezinye iinguqu ezinokubaluleka ngokukhethekileyo ngexesha lomzimba. Inyaniso kukuba emva kokufumana "ukukhutshwa", ibhinqa liva ukuxhatshaza kwisisu esisezantsi, nto leyo ichaza ukuhlaselwa kwe-post-orgasmic. Ukuze uyinqobe kufuneka uphumule kwaye ulale ngasekunene kweminye imizuzu eyi-10-15. Ngako oko kuyimfuneko ukuphefumula ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuphawula i-masturbation ngethuba ixesha lokuhamba kwimihla ekuhambeni kwaye lihambelana nococeko olucokisekileyo.
Ukwaneliseka ngokwamagama ahlukeneyo wokuthwala
Njengoko sele kuthethwe ngaye, ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kumanyathelo okuqala okukhulelwa kunokubangela i-tonus eyandisiweyo ye-uterus nokukhulelwa komzimba, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukunciphisa ubukhulu bayo. Zama ukudibanisa nomlingani wesini okanye ulinde kude kube yinto efanelekileyo. Ukugcoba iinyanga emva kweenyanga ezili-9 zokukhulelwa kunokuba yinto engcono kakhulu kwisondo esivamile, okuba nzima ngenxa yesisu esikhulu kunye nomfazi olungiselela umgangatho weplavic.
Umbuzo wokuba unobungozi ukuhlambalaza ngexesha lokukhulelwa kufuneka kusombululwe ngokuzimeleyo okanye ngoncedo lomthandayo. Kukho nawuphi na, akukho mfuneko yokungahoywa ingxaki yokunganeliseki ngokwesondo.