Okulungileyo kunye nobubi - ezi ngongoma ezingapheliyo, ezingaguqukiyo zihamba ngendlela ekhoyo namhlanje. Uxolo, inceba, unina, intsapho, isikolo, umama - akukho mntu uya kuqiniseka ukuba konke oku kungabizwa ngokuthi igama elihle "elungileyo." Kodwa kukho isibetho kwiplanethi ebizwa ngokuthi "ugqirha." Ukuba iminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, abaninzi babengazi into ebalulekileyo kunye nokubaluleka kwalo mcimbi owonakalisayo, namhlanje kuyafuneka ukuba kungekhona nje ukukwazi malunga nalo, kodwa nokuba ukulungele ukungabanjwa kwimeko. Yingakho ootitshala abakwi-class watch bayanyanzelekile ukuba baqhelane nabantwana ngemithetho yokukhuseleka kokukhuseleka kwesigqeba esikolweni.
Siseko
Kunzima ukuchazela abafundi beeklasi ezincinci kunye eziphakathi. Unokuxelela njani umntwana ukuba abantu abadala bayakwazi ngenxa yezopolitiko, ezonqulo, imidlalo yezoqoqosho ukubeka ingozi kubomi babantu abaninzi abahlala besenza, nangona bukhohlakele, njengento yokuxoxisana? Ngokukodwa xa kuvela kubantwana abangenacala, njengoko kwakunamabanga amabini amabandla esikolweni saseBeslan ngo-2004, owafa ngeenkunzi zamaphekula.
Kodwa ezi zizinto ezibuhlungu zobomi bethu. Amanyathelo okukhusela ukhuseleko, okubandakanya iingxoxo, imidlalo yokuziphatha echazela ngokucacileyo abafundi ukuba baziphathe njani xa kukho isongelo soogqirha, luyimfuneko. Abantwana kufuneka babe nako ukulungelelanisa ulwazi, bahlalutye ulwazi, benze izigqibo malunga nendlela yokuziphatha kwimeko engxamisekileyo, ukubanjwa, ukuzondla kunye nabanye ngokunyamekela ngonyango.
Ukuba sishwankathela, ngexesha lokufunda ngesigebengu, ootitshala mabaxelele abantwana ngale miba elandelayo:
- Ukwahlula okucacileyo phakathi kokulungileyo nokubi;
- ingxoxo yenkxalabo yobugrogasi kunye nemizekelo;
- ufunda isiseko se-antiterrorist;
- sebenze ngamaqela;
- shwa nkathela.
Ekupheleni kwesifundo, abantwana akufanele bathuke. Kumele baqonde ukuba akudingeki ukwesaba. Ngobubi kubalulekile ukulwa, nokwazi indlela yokwenza imeko ephosakeleyo, oku kulula.
Ulwazi loLwazi
Amanyathelo abalulekileyo ekukhuselekeni kwe-antiterrorist ukulandela imigaqo yokuziphatha kwisenzo sogorhagi, ukuthatha izenzo zokubamba, ukuphatha izinto eziyingozi kunye nokuziphatha kwisihlwele sabantu abanoyika. Akukho mntu, akukho babazali, akukho titshala, akukho miyalelo yokuthotyelwa komthetho inokukunceda kwiimeko ezinjalo, kuba ingozi inokulinda kwi-minibus kunye nasendleleni yomgwaqo. Ukunyamekela, ukulandelelana, ukunyaniseka kwizinto ezinqabileyo ezingaqhelekanga (imoto yomnye umntu egcekeni, ipakethi okanye ibhokisi elishiywe lingalindelekanga, umntu osolisayo, njl.) Yinto engasindisa ubomi kubantu abangaphezu komntu omnye. Kodwa abantu abadala kuphela kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo okuphelisa usongelo! Akuvumelekile ukuba uthinte iibales ezigxekayo, iibhegi kunye neebhokisi!
Ukuba imeko yayiphumile, kwaye umntwana wayekho
Siyathemba ukuba olu lwazi luya kuhlala luyingcamango ecocekileyo, engayi kuze ibe luncedo kumntwana ngokusebenza, kodwa akungento yinto athi "ukwaziswa-ithetha, ixhobile". Ihlabathi kunye nesibhakabhaka esicacileyo ngaphezu kwabo bonke abantu bomhlaba!
Ukongezelela, abazali kufuneka bazi indlela yokukhusela umntwana kumngene.