Bangaphi abantu abafuna ukufunda kwi-intanethi ibali elidabukisayo ngamadoda axela abafazi ngenxa yokungathembeki ngenxa yokuba umntwana engabonakali njengoyise, okanye umkhwekazi wakhe, ngenxa yesinye isizathu esityhalela umalokazana wakhe wokunyelisa inzala yakhe ethandekayo. Kodwa kuya kunokwenzeka ukuphepha ukungaqondani okukhulu kunye nokugcina uxolo kunye nokuvisisana kwiintsapho ezinjalo, ziwela ezandleni zale ntlungu-ntloko kunye noogogo incwadi yesiqhelo kwi-genetics.
Ukungabi nolwazi alukho kwiidrama zeentsapho ezifanayo, machaze imeko. Ngoko, kutheni, kwiimeko ezininzi, kwiimeko ezininzi, abantwana bafana nabazali babo, kodwa akubandakanyi amatyala xa umntwana engabonakali njengoyise okanye engakhange abonakale njengabazali bakhe?
Nasi umzekelo ovela kwintsapho yam. Umama bonke ubomi bam bubuhlungu bokuthi ungumntwana wabazali bakhe. Enyanisweni, ngaphezu kombala wamehlo kunye neenwele (ezivela kumama) kunye nokuxhamla kwizifo ezidibeneyo (kuvela kubawo), akabonakali ukuba uzuze ilifa. Ngaphezu koko, ugogo (unina kamama) kwiminyaka emininzi edluleyo wongezela umlilo, wathi: "Akabukeka ngathi ngathi, njengokungathi uyatshintshwa esibhedlele."
Eyona nto ayikhokelekanga nje ngesidingo sokucacisa esi sihloko kubafundi, kodwa nangomdla wokwenene, ndiza kuzama ukufumana ukuba ubani omele ukuba afane naye, ukuba kukho konke, ukuba kukho into ekumele ibe nayo umntu.
Inyaniso Ngelifa Lezinto
Ngoko, okokuqala, masikhumbule izifundo zesikolo kwi-biology, apho sonke saxelelwa khona icebo elilula lelifa. Iimvelaphi zijongene nelifa lempawu ezithile. Iimvelaphi ziphezulu (ezinamandla) kunye nokugqithisa (kubuthakathaka). Umntu ngamnye, ingaba ikati, inja, ihashe, inambuzane okanye umntu, uzuza ilifa lesibini, oko kukuthi, omnye komzali ngamnye. Kuvela ukuba izakhi zofuzo zale mntu zingabakho ngokubanzi, okanye zixutywe, kwaye mhlawumbi ziphela. Kuvela uhlobo lwelokotri. Kukho, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuhlala rhoqo: ii-genes eziphambili zibizwa kanjalo, ezisoloko zibonakaliswa kwi-phenotype (iimpawu zomntu ngamnye). Kodwa yonke imigaqo ikhethiweyo.
Kubantu, iizakhi ezijongene nombala omnyama wamehlo, iinwele kunye nesikhumba, iinwele ezibukiweyo, iimpawu ezinkulu zobuso zibhekwa njengezityalo eziphezulu. Ngako oko, ukukhanya kwamehlo, ukukhanya okulula kunye ngqo, isikhumba esiluhlaza, i-finesse, iinjenge zegesi zixhomekeke. Ngako oko umzekelo:
- Abazali abanamabala abomvu abamnyama, njengomthetho, abantwana abafanayo bazalwa;
- Umntwana we-blonde kunye ne-blonde ekhangeleka kakhulu ukuba "uhambelane" uye kubawo, kodwa angakwazi ukuzuza ilifa kunye nomama womama;
- kodwa kubaphathi be-blonde ye-genetic reactions, ukubonakala kwenzalo kunzima ukuqikelela, ekubeni kunokuchaphazeleka ngamajelo omkhulu ootatomkhulu, kunye nookhokho obude.
Ndiphindaphinda ukuba lo ngumzekelo kuphela, umgaqo onokuthi ube neyodwa. Ngokomzekelo, umama onenwele ze-wavy, kunye noyise oyinyameko, bobabini banokudibanisa iimbini zeejen (ezinobunzima obukhulu ("i-curly") kunye nomnye ogqithiseleyo (i-"straight-horns") i-gene), kwaye ngumntwana oqhekezayo kuphela. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana oza kuba neenwele eziqhelekileyo uya kuzalelwa, okuqinisekileyo, kuyinto emangalisayo, kodwa akufuneki ukuba kubakho ukungazithembi komzali.
Iingcamango malunga nelifa lempawu
Makhe sihlale sihlala kwi-Intanethi nakwiimidiya zokusasazela ngezobugcisa malunga nokuba ngubani umntwana oqala ukubonakala ngathi, kunye nempembelelo kwintlobo yezityalo zegciwane zamalingani olwabelana naye ngokwesondo.
Iingoma 1 . Umntwana wokuqala uhlala efana noyise, kwaye yesibini ibonakala njengomama. Akucaci, ngokubhekiselele ekuqwalaseleni kwakhe oku kuphelile. Akukho datha yesayensi nolwazi lwamanani.
Iingoma 2 . Inkolelo ye-telegony - ithintelo elifunwa yindoda yokuqala kuyo yonke inzala yowesifazane. Kukho nembono yokuba onke amaqabane eentlobano zesini ashiya umfazi onolwazi lwezofuzo, emva koko olubonakaliswa kumlinganiselo othile kubantwana bakhe. Le ngqungquthela yabonakala kwisiqingatha sokuqala seXIX yeXesti ngenxa yesiphumo sokufumana i-horse kunye ne-zebra, oko kwakunokuthi uCharles Darwin uchaze: uku kuwela akuzange kunikezele inzala, kodwa ukulandelelana kweentlobo ezilandelelanayo, kukhokelela ekuzalweni kwezilwanyana ezinemizila. Nangona kunjalo, kwaziwa ukuba ekupheleni kwekhulu leshumi elineshumi elinamhlanje amava ayephindwa kabini ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngabaososayensi, kwaye kwakungekho nanye inzala eneempawu ze-zebra. Mhlawumbi umphumo omangalisayo wamava kaDarwin wawungekho umphumo we-telegonics,
Nangona kunjalo, ngamaxesha onke ukuzalwa komntwana kwahamba kunye kunye neengxabano ezifudumeleyo zeentsapho malunga nokuba umntwana ufana nani. Ukuba umntwana unjengomama, ugogo nomkhulu kunye nomama kamnandi, ukuba upapa, izalamane zakhe zithi: "Nento encinci-ekuzaleni kwethu!" Konke oku kuqondakalayo, kuba wonke umntu ufuna ukumbona kwinto encinane ukuqhubeka kwakhe . Kodwa musa ukucaphukisa xa umntwana engazange azalwe njengawe. Bonke abantu bahluke, kwaye indalo ilawulwe ngobulumko, idale ukuhlukahluka okunjalo. Emva koko, uya kuvuma, kuya kuba nzima ukuphakamisa nokufundisa ikopi yakho.