Kuze kube sesikhathini sethu, kuye kwafika isibalo esikhulu seempawu, ezavela kumaxesha amandulo. Zininzi iinkolelo ezinxulumene nomtshato, umzekelo, omnye wabo uchaza ukuba kutheni umntu angatshatanga emasanti. Ngendlela, ukuba iimpawu ezininzi ziye zalahleka ukufaneleka kwazo, umtshato usasaqhelekileyo kwaye intombazana eninzi iyaqhubeka iwalandela.
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Ukubhiyozela kwadlula ngaphandle kweengxaki, kwaye ubomi obudibeneyo buvuyayo, abantu abazange baqwalasele ukuziphatha kakuhle komtshato, kodwa kunye neengubo zabasanda kutshata. Phakathi kwabantu kukho uluvo lokuba umtshakazi akakwazi ukuhamba phantsi kwesithsaba kwiisatada kwaye kuphela izicathulo ezivunyelwe ukuba zigqoke.
Kutheni ungatshatanga ngezicathulo:
- Kukholelwa ukuba imilenze yindawo ekhuselekileyo emzimbeni womntu kwaye ukuba ivulekile kwaye ibonakala kuwo wonke umntu, ngoko abantu ababi banokuyifaka nje. Ukuba umtshakazi usezicathulo, iintshaba zinokufuna umnqweno omncinci ngezinto ezingathandekiyo.
- Olunye ushicilelo lwesibonakaliso sokuba akunakwenzeka ukutshata ngezicathulo kukuba ezi zihlangu ziza kuzisa inhlekelele kwixesha elizayo le sibini. Ukususela kumncinci kuya kuphuma inwaba, imali kunye nothando, kodwa iingxaki ziya kutsalwa njengeemagnet. Ukuba umtshakazi enxiba izicathulo zomtshato, uya kuchitha ubomi bakhe bonke
uya kuhamba ngeengubo, kuba ngeemingxuma ezidodeni "zityhila" yonke imali. - Uninzi lwezicathulo zineenkcukacha ezahlukeneyo kunye nezibhanti, ezisetyenziswe njengemihlobiso. Kukholelwa ukuba oku ekupheleni kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezivela ngexesha lokubeletha. Ukuze umntwana azalwe ngaphandle kweengxaki, umtshakazi kufuneka abe zihlangu.
Wonke umntu unelungelo lokuzikhethela yena nokuba ukholelwa kwiinkolelo-ze okanye cha, kodwa khumbula ukuba ukuba ucinga ngeengxaki, ngoko ziyakwenzeka kungekudala okanye kamva zenzeke ebomini. Umntu ngokwakhe udala uvuyo lwakhe kwaye akunandaba nokuba ziphi izicathulo azigqokayo.