Kunokuba uhlale phantsi kwezingane?
Abantwana ngokukodwa kunzima ukuhambisa indlela - ngesitimela , kwi-moya okanye kwimoto, kuba akulula ukuba bahlale bodwa endaweni enye ixesha elide. Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe endleleni, thabatha "umlingo" wesikhwama somntwana wakho. Faka ngaphambi kokufaka amathoyizi amathandwayo omntwana wakho, i-albhamu yokudweba kunye neepensele ezinemibala, ithoyilo elitsha apho umntwana uya kuba nomdla wokudlala (umzekelo, i-slate, idonop, ukubeka iminwe, njl. Kukulungele ukuzisa i-albhamu yokukhula yabantwana abaneempawu ezinokufunyanwa kuyo nayiphi na ivenkile yabantwana, umzekelo, ngefowuni yamanani ejometri okanye "Fumana ukuhlukana", njl njl. Bonke abantwana banamathele, kwaye i-albhamu enjalo iya kuthwala amaqhekeza ixesha elide. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amathoyizi kunye nemidlalo kufuneka afane nomntwana wengane, ngaphandle koko abayi kuba nomdla kuye. Thatha yonke into encinane kwiphakethi yakho, masiyeke itekisi nganye ibe yinto emangalisayo kumntwana.
Ukuba uceba kwangaphambili, kunokuba uthathe umntwana endleleni, ungayilungiselela i-albhamu yezithombe. Yigcwalise ngemifanekiso yentsana, izalamane, izifuyo, amathoyizi amathandayo. I-albhamu enjalo iya kumphazamisa umntwana endleleni, kwaye uya kuvuyela ukuphendula imibuzo yakho.
Unokuthabatha iincwadi kunye nawe, okanye umane uprinte itekisi (ukuze ulondoloze isikhala), ulwimi lweelwimi, iingoma ze-nursery, iingoma zezingane, ezifanelekileyo zokufunda nabantwana endleleni.
Kwimvelo, khangela amathuba omntwana ukuba azi ihlabathi elikufutshane naye. Umzekelo, mcele ukuba abhekise kwimithi emikhulu, aze afumane abazalwana babo abancinane - imithi emifula. Ukuqokelela ekwindla kunye kunye neziqhamo zasehlotyeni zamaqabunga, iintyatyambo kunye nemifuno.
Unokufumana izinto ezahlukeneyo - ubuncwane behlathi: ama-acorns, ama-cones, amacwecwe, njl. Cetyisa umntwana konke oku kuhle ukubola, uze ufihle kwaye ufune: ukufihla into enye, kwaye unike umntwana ukuba athole ingcebo ekhoyo.
Phakamisa iingcamango, kunokuba uthathe abantwana kwidolophana ehlobo. Apha, umntwana angasetyenzwa ngokukhuselekileyo kwilizwe elithile lezilwanyana zasekhaya: umbonise indlu yokukhupha, inkabi, uphume kunye naye kudlelo, kudle amadada, izinja, ubone indlela inkomo ibisiweyo ngayo, njl njl. Ngexesha elifanayo kunye nosana kuyimfuneko ukuthetha kakhulu, ukucacisela kuye izindlu ezibizwa ngokuba yizilwanyana, zeziphi izandi abakuthethayo, oko batya, njl njl.
Unomdlalo omnandi kumntwana wakho uya kuhanjiswa kwi-swing, engayifakelwa entendelezweni ngexesha lehlobo.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuba uthathe umntwana ngunyaka kunye nomdala osele kwidolophana, yaya kumlambo. Lapha, vumela umntwana "aphule ngokugcwele"! Vumela omncinci agijime angagqoki ngapha nangaselunxwemeni, aphose ngamatye kunye naye emanzini, asebenzise.
Kuyabantwana kuya kuba mnandi ukudlala ngamanzi nakwiyadi. Ngoncedo lokukhupha kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze umzila "umlambo" kwanaluphi na ubungakanani. Abantwana baya kuvuyela ngokusasaza izikebhe kunye nayo.
Ukufumana abantwana abadala
Ngoko, makhe siqwalasele oko kuthatha umntwana ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala kunye nangaphezulu ehlobo ngexesha lokuphumla. Ewe, ukuba uhamba ngemoto - ngoko unokurekhoda ibali lakhe kwirekhodi. Ncedisa inkunzi: cinga imeko, indawo apho isenzo senzeke khona, abalinganiswa okanye uqale ibali, umzekelo: "Xa ndihlala kunye nogogo kwidolophana, ndabona ...". Emva kokuba ibali libhaliswe kwirekhodi, liphulaphule kunye nomntwana kwaye ungakhohlwa ukumdumisa ngokubonisa ubuchule. Mema umntwana ukuba adlale "Into endiyibonayo": makangichaze indawo, abantu abadibana nawe endleleni.
Dlala nebhokhwe ekuphuhliseni imidlalo: bonisa ukuba ukhumbule amagama aqala ngeleta ethile, okanye amvumele ukuba acinge amagama usebenzisa izicwangciso zakho, umzekelo: "Kukhona into ebhasi eqala ngeleta" d "." Nika umntwana ukuba athathe ingqalelo kwisibhengezo edibeneyo endleleni, igama lomkhiqizo, ochazwe, kwaye ucinge ngendlela engasetyenziswa ngayo.
Abantwana abavela kwiminyaka emithathu bangathathwa ngeendlela ezifutshane. Cinga ngethuba lokuphumla lomntwana ngaphambi kokuhamba. Thatha i-anwning endala, intambo kunye nekisi. Sika imingxuma ententeni kwaye mema imbuzi ukuba iphose ibhola ekujoliswe kuyo.
Yintoni enye ongayithatha abantwana kwimvelo? Khetha phakathi kwemithi indawo yokudala i-web yarn. Inkwenkwe iya kuzisa uhambo lokuya kwiinjongo, ngokugqithisa amanqaku elula. Unokuyilungisa umdlalo we-ping-pong kunye namacwecwe alahlekileyo kunye neibhaluni.
Ingcamango enhle kubazali abangayazi ukuba benzani nabantwana kule phulo ibonisa. Akubi, ukuba kwisiqu sakho kukho ibhodi kunye neekrayoni. Mema umntwana ukuba enze imidwebo yento akubonayo. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kubonakalisa ukubonakala kwakhe kwimizila kwimidwebo. Unokulungiselela ukuba ithole lize lifune ubuncwane. Musa ukulibala ukuba abantwana bathanda ukuphulaphula
Ngaselunxwemeni, abantwana banokunikezwa imidlalo esebenzayo, njengebhola, okanye sebenzisa i-kite. Ukuba umntwana sele sele ezele, ke apha kungaphezulu kokuba unako ukuthatha umntwana kwindawo yokuloba elwandle - kwiiflebhe. Kule nto kufuneka uvelise i-gouache kunye neebhondi. Ngokuxhomekeka kwimilo yamatye, iimbombo kunye nengcamango yomntwana, kunokwenzeka ukubeka kuzo imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo - izilwanyana, iintlanzi, iintyatyambo, njl. Kwaye ukuba loo mfanekiso awugqwali, sele sele uhlala ekhaya phezu kwengubo, unokufaka isicelo seenwele. Lo msebenzi uvelisa ukucinga kwengqondo yomntwana, kunye nezikhumbuzo ezenziwe ngezandla zakhe, kuya kuba yimemori enhle yezinye.