Yintoni oyifunayo ukuze uqhawule umtshato xa kukho umntwana omncinci?

Ngamanye amaxesha, iimeko zentlalo zikhula ngendlela yokuba isibini sithatha isigqibo sokusabalalisa. Le nkqubo inomyalelo wayo, owenzelwa kwinqanaba lomthetho. Kwiintsapho ezinabantwana, inkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato inemiba ethile.

Indlela yokuqhawula umtshato xa kukho abantwana abangaphantsi?

Kule meko, kufuneka uhambe enkundleni. Inkqubo yonke iyahlula kwiinqanaba eziliqela:

ukuqokelela kwamaxwebhu;

• ukungeniswa kwezixhobo, izicelo kwinkundla;
• zokuvalelwa kweenkundla;
• ukwenza izigqibo.

Isicelo singabambisana, kwaye sifakwe ngumqalisi wenkqubo kwindawo yokuhlala kommangalelwa. Kodwa kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umtshato awuvunyelwe kwimeko apho intsapho inabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-1, okanye ukuba umfazi ukhulelwe. Kodwa kule meko, kunokwenzeka ukuba kunokwenzeka. Umzekelo, ukuba indoda okanye umfazi waphula umthetho ngokuphathelele kumntwana okanye umlingane wesibini. Kwakhona, inkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato iya kubanjelwa ukuba irekhodi lobazali bomyeni lihoxiswa ngesigqibo senkundla. Okanye kwimeko xa omnye umntu ebona ukuba ngumntwana.

Ngaphambi kokufaka isicelo, kufuneka ulungiselele yonke into oyifunayo ukuze uqhawule umtshato, ukuba kukho umntwana omncinci. Le phakheji yamaphepha iya kubandakanya ezi zinto zilandelayo:

• ipaspoti yeqabane eliqalisa umtshato;
• isatifiketi somtshato;
• izatifikethi zokuzalwa zabantwana;
• iirisithi iyadingeka ukuhlawula intlawulo.

Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukwenza iikopi zazo zonke izibambiso ezingentla.

Olu luhlu aluphelelanga. Inkundla inokufuna amanye amaxwebhu. Ngoko, ukuze sikwazi ukwenza isigqibo malunga ne-alimony, kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa imeko, ukubonisa isatifiketi sokwakheka kwentsapho. Imithetho yokuqhawula umtshato phambi kokuba abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka bayavumela umfazi osemthethweni ukuba afune i-alimony ukuxhasa umntwana kwaye azigcine.

Ukuze kulungiswe imirhumo yepropati, kuyimfuneko ukungenisa inkundla uluhlu lwazo zonke ipropati ephantsi kohlulo. Oku kungaba ngamaxwebhu e-estate or automobiles, kunye nokuhlola, iipassports zezixhobo zendlu.

Kunconywa ukufaka izicelo ezihlukeneyo zokuqhawula kunye nokwahlukana kwepropati. Oku kuchazwa yinyaniso yokuba iingxabano zepropati zingadinga ukuqwalaselwa okongeziweyo. Kwaye amatyala omtshato aqwalaselwa ngokukhawuleza. Ixesha lesigqibo sabo lixhomekeke kwinkalo yomsebenzi wenkundla, kunye neenkcukacha ezithile kwimeko ethile.

Kodwa kukho imeko apho, nangomntwana, uqhawulo-mtshato lunokwenzeka nge-RAGS. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba iqabane libonakala lilahlekile, lifunyanwe lingenakufaneleka okanye ligwetyelwe ukuvalelwa entolongweni iminyaka engama-3.

Umtshato uqhawulwa njani xa kukho abantwana abangaphantsi?

Ijaji liya kuqesha umhla weentlanganiso emva kokulungiswa kwimeko. Bobabini abatshatileyo kufuneka bavele kwinkqubo. Yazisa ngokusemthethweni. Intlanganiso iqeshwe kungekuqaleni kwenyanga enye emva kokufakwa kwesicelo. Ukuba inkundla idinga izinto ezongezelelweyo, abafazi baya kwaziswa malunga nalokhu kwangaphambili.

Inqubo yokuqhawula umtshato nomntwana omncinci ithatha ithuba lokuseka ixesha lokuxolelana kweso sibini. Isicelo siya kukhutshwa xa abafazi bengafiki enkundleni emva kweli xesha.

Ukuba umyeni okanye umfazi unesizathu esivakalayo sokungabikho kwintlanganiso, ngoko kuya kukhishwa. Kwakhona, umhla wenkundla unokutshintshwa, ukuba akukho nkcukacha ecacileyo ukuba ngamnye umtshato waziswa ngomhla weentlanganiso. Xa isigqibo senziwe, sithunyelwa kwi-RAGS, apho kukho inqaku elifanayo kwirekhodi lomtshato.