Indlela yokugcina umntwana osanda kuzalwa?

Ewe, ekugqibeleni uye waphelela zonke iimvavanyo zokukhulelwa nokubeletha, ngoku incinci ilungu nelona libalulekileyo lentsapho liye lavela ekhaya. Bonke oogogo kunye noomkhulu bayamomotheka ngokukhawuleza, bebethela kwiimvuthu, kodwa bambalwa abantu basombululwa, bengakwazi nje ukugcina intsana. Ngendlela, akuzona zonke izibhedlele zokubeletha zixelela umama indlela yokugcina kakuhle umntwana osanda kuzalwa, indlela yokuyithatha nendlela yokuyibeka ngayo.

Ungazigcina njani usana olutsha?

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• ukuxhasa intloko, kuba imisipha yentamo ayinakuqiniswa ngokupheleleyo kwaye i-crumb ayiyikuyilawula. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezimbalwa kunye nemithetho malunga nendlela yokugcina umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa:
• ngazange uphakamise okanye ufake indawo ehambayo ngokukhawuleza kunye nokunyuka;
• Awukwazi ukugcina usana olusandula ngesandla esinye, njengoko oku kungonakalisa amanxeba eemvumba; ngaphandle koko, kule meko akukho ukulungiswa okufanelekileyo kwesihlanjeni, makungabikho ukhuseleko;
• Musa ukuguqula intloko, qinisekisa ukulungiswa okufanelekileyo ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-3-4 ukuya kwiintsuku.

Abantwana banamhlanje phantsi kwesiqhelo sobomi abafuni ukulala phantsi kwaye bakhetha ukugqithwa, ngokukodwa kwiinyanga ezi-3-4. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa iindlela zokugcina umntwana osanda kuzalwa:

1. Ngokuqinisekileyo ehlombe. Le ndlela ibizwa ngokuba "gcina umntwana osandulweyo kwikholam". Kukulungele ukwenza oku: inhloko ixhaswa ngesandla somama kwaye ifakwe kwihlombe lakhe, isandla sesibini sisekela umva kunye nesantya somntwana.
2. Eloyeni. Thatha isandla somntwana ngaphantsi kwebele, kwaye, njalo kunjalo, uhlale ekhondweni, ngelixa ujikelezisa i-torso kancane phambili. Ngaloo ndlela, ukugcina umntwana osanda kuzalwa kuyamkeleka, kuba akukho mthwalo phezu komthi, kwaye konke ukunyama kuyawela esandleni sakho.
3. Iintsana ezininzi zikhetha ukugcina indawo yazo. Indlela yokubamba ngokutsha umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa: uthathe isandla esisodwa kunye namaqhekeza emva kwesifuba, cindezela ngokuqinisekileyo kunye nomva wakho kunye nawe, kwaye okwesibini ubambe iqhosha elilodwa. Yinakekele ukuba ubunzima abuwa phantsi kwengalo ngomlenze, kuyingozi kumngcongolo wengane. Unokumane uthathe imilenze yeziqhekeza ngeenyawo uze uzidonsa kwisisu, kulinceda nakwiindawo zeplavic.

Indlela yokugcina isana emva kokutya?

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokubamba ngokusesikweni umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kule nkalo, zombini, kunye nendawo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umama akakwazi ukhetho olufanelekileyo lokuncelisa, kwaye akayazi indlela yokugcina umntwana osanda kuzalwa xa esondla. Unokondla i-crumb kokuhlala kunye nokulala, into ephambili kukuba i-crumb ayiyi kubamba kuphela ingxowa, kodwa isangqa se-ingono. Emva kokutya, kufuneka uthabathe ikhefu, ukuze ufumane ubisi oluninzi kwaye ugwinye umoya, oku kuya kuthintela intlungu kwisisu se-crumb. Musa ukuba neentloni kwikhaya lokubeleka ngokubanzi ukubuza abasebenzi bezonyango malunga nezinto ezincinci kakhulu, kuba akuyi kuba namnye uncedo ekhaya, ngamanye amaxesha ugogo uyaba nokwenza utyhafile.

Indlela yokugcina umntwana osandul

Kwizibhedlele zokubeletha, oongikazi kufuneka babonise umama wabo ngendlela yokutya nokugcina umntwana osandul 'inqanawa, kodwa nendlela yokuhlamba kakuhle umntwana. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlamba umntwana phezu kwenkomfa, faka umntwana kwisandla sakho sokunxele (kubantu abalungileyo) kwaye ulungelelanise umxhelo wamagxa phakathi kwenkcazo kunye neminwe ephakathi yamagxa, ubambe izikhwelo kumanzi wamanzi kwaye uhlambele phambili ukuya ngasemva, ukukhusela i-microestyle yamathumbu ukuba ungene kwizitho zangasese. Emva kwenkqubo, pat uomile ngokukhawuleza, kodwa akukho mzekelo ungagibisi isikhumba.