Amanyathelo okuphuhliswa kwabantwana ukuya kunyaka owodwa

Ingaba umntwana ukhula kwaye aphuhlise ngokuchanekileyo ngumbuzo abaninzi abanomama nabantwana abanomdla kuzo. Ngokukodwa esi sihloko sisona sentsholongwane, xa i-crumb ihluke kakhulu kwiontanga. Kukho amanyathelo athile ekuphuhlisweni komntwana ukuya kunyaka, emva kokufunda oko, kunokwenzeka ukuba kuchaneke ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ngaba kukho ukuphambuka kwimimiselo yenyama okanye yengqondo.

Amanyathelo okuphuhliswa kwabantwana ukuya kunyaka ngeenyanga

Iinjongo eziphambili zento omele uyihlawule ngayo xa uvavanya ukuphuhliswa kwe-carapace izakhono zomzimba kunye nokuhamba, ulwimi oluthethayo (izandi) kunye neemvakalelo. Uphuhliso lwengqondo lomntwana ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kunyaka lulandelayo:

1. Inyanga 1: uzama ukumncoma xa uthetha nabantu abadala; Andikwazi ukujonga ixesha elithandayo.
2. Iinyanga ezimbini: uyaphendula ngokukhawuleza kumomothekayo kamama; uqala ukuhamba; Kuba ixesha elide ugcina amehlo akhe kwidlali, nokuba lihamba ukusuka ecaleni.
3. Iinyanga ezi-3: ezilwanyana ezibonakalayo kumntu omdala, obonakaliswe ukunyakaza kwezandla ezisebenzayo, iinyawo kunye nokumomotheka; uzama ukujika intloko yakhe kwisandi; guzzles.
4. Iinyanga ezi-4: xa uxoxisana nomntu omdala, uqala ukukhusela; umntwana uyamkela uMama noTata aze ahlukanise nabanye abantu; ngokuhleka ngokukhawuleza; ixesha elide lihamba.
5. Iinyanga ezi-5: unokukhala, xa umama eshiya ngokukhawuleza; ukwahlula iitoni ezicetywayo; ixesha elide lithengisa.
6. Iinyanga ezili-6: xa i-crumb ithathwa, iyeka ukukhala; Uzama ukubiza izilwanyana ezithile (ubble).
7. Iinyanga ezi-7: ukuhlukanisa ngokugqibeleleyo abantu abaqhelekileyo nabaqhelekileyo; xa umfokazi ezama ukuqhagamshelana nomntwana, unokukhala; uyabamba ixesha elide.
8. Iinyanga ezili-8: uqala ukuqonda igama lezinto kwaye uzikhangele ngamehlo; ngokuphindaphindiweyo uthetha ngeesilagidi ezifanayo.
9. Iinyanga ezili-9: uphendula egameni lakhe; kwisicelo sabantu abadala, ukukhangela into kwaye uyibeke kuyo; wenza isenzo esilula ngezandla (hamba kakuhle, unike, njl.); uyaqhubeka ebhekisa.
10. Iinyanga ezili-10: ngokucela, unikeza izinto eziqhelekileyo; ibonisa izixhobo zomzimba; xelisa abantu abadala, ezama ukubiza amagama.
11. Iinyanga ezili-11: uqonda ukuvalwa; uqala ukuthetha ngamagama alula, ngokubhekiselele kulo mbandela.
12. Iinyanga ezili-12: ukuzalisekisa iimfuno ezincinci: hambani (ukukhahlela), kunika into, njl.; Uqala ukuxelisa abantu abadala kungekuphela nje ngomlomo, kodwa nangokwenyama.

Iimvuthu zenyama zisebenza kakhulu. Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi unqoba umgama omude, oza kukwazi ukuphindaphinda naluphi na umnyaka wobomi bakhe. Ukuze kube lula, izigaba zokukhula komntwana ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kunyaka ziboniswa kwifom yegrafu.

Kwiinyanga ezili-12 zokuqala inkonyana inayo ixesha lokufunda ezininzi. Amanyathelo okuphuhliswa komntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-1 akufanele athathwe ngokukodwa kwaye athukuthele xa i-crumb isazi ukuba njani. Kuhlala kulungele ukukhumbula ukuba bonke abantwana ngabanye, kwaye bangahlakulela ngokungafaniyo.