Umkhwenkwe usana olutsha

Abazali abavuyokileyo kwikamva bahlala bechulumana ngokugqithiseleyo ukugcinwa kweentengiso zabantwana, ukukhetha i-dowry yengane yabo. U-Moms ufunda ulwazi kwi-Intanethi, qhagamshelana nabahlobo abanolwazi, kuba akulula kakhulu ukuhamba kwiinkalo ezininzi zemveliso yabantwana. Ngokomzekelo, kwiivenkile, ngaphezu kweendawo eziqhelekileyo zentsana, kunokubakho ukuzala komntwana. Ezi zakhiwo zibukeka kakuhle, zininzi zemisebenzi elula, zithatha indawo encinane, ngokuqinisekileyo iyabacaphukisa abazali abazayo. Kodwa ke, abaninzi banenkxalabo malunga nokuba umntwana uyasweleka okanye unokuyenza ngaphandle kwayo. Impendulo yalo mbuzo kufuneka inqunywe ngabanye kwaye oko kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela iimpawu zale fenitshala yabantwana.

Iintlobo zentsana zomntwana eziza kusana

Kukho imodeli emininzi ethandwa kakhulu, nganye leyo inezixhobo zayo zokwakha:

1. Ukunyuswa kwesisu kwiintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa kukuhlobo lwebhaksi kwiziseko ezikhoyo.
2. Isihlalo sokuqhawula umkhwa - ukukhwabanisa ngesitulo sokugungqisa kwisiseko, kunokuba kumavili, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwiimodeli ezinjalo kunokwenzeka ukulawula ukuphakama.
3. Umntwana olala phantsi kwe-Bedside ubonisa ukuba kungenzeka ukuwufaka kwisibhedlele sabazali, okwenza ubusuku bondle ngakumbi.
4. Isihlalo sokugqeba nge-electronic somntwana sixhotyiswe ngeenkqubo zeplastiki zanamhlanje ezikwazi ukuququzelela imisebenzi yomama, umzekelo, kukho ukulawula okukude, kukho ukugula okuzenzekelayo ngexesha lokukhala, ukunyakaza.
5. Umntwana okhutshelweyo oza kuzalwa unokuvumela ukuba uthwale umntwana wakho kunye neendlu, kwaye ukhuthaze ukuba ulale ebhokheni.

Abavelisi banikela ngokukhethekileyo okukhethiweyo, okukuvumela ukuba ukhethe umzekelo oya kuba ngumncedisi othembekileyo kumama oselula.

Abazali bavame ukuzibuza ukuba kukuphi ukuthenga intsana yokuzalwa? Kukho inketho ezininzi ngoku. Ingaba yintengiso yeentwana kunye nezitolo ze-intanethi ezithengisa ifenitshala yabantwana kunye nezixhobo.

Unokukhetha njani umntwana wokuzalwa?

Ewe, ulwahlula uluhlu lwemveliso, ngcono. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo kunzima ukuhamba kwaye unqume oko ukujonga xa ukhetha. Ukuthenga intsana yokuzalwa, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ezi zinto zibalulekileyo zilandelayo:

• izixhobo ezivela kuyo indawo yokulala kufuneka zibe nobungane kwaye zikhuselekileyo;
• zonke izakhi zendawo yokulala kufuneka zihlanjululwe lula kwaye zicocwe;
• kufuneka ukhethe i-cradles, apho i-fasteners yenziwe ngensimbi, njengoko oku kuya kuqinisekisa ubungqina besakhiwo;
• Inkoliso yemisebenzi eyongezelelweyo kwiimpawu zithintela ukwanda kwexabiso, kodwa ngelo xesha, ezinye zazo zingahanjiswa nazo. Kufuneka ucingisise kakuhle, mhlawumbi kunengqiqo ukuhlawula imizekelo engabizi, kodwa ngaphandle kweminye impawu;
• ubukhulu bomntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kufuneka avumele umntwana ukuba angavumi ukunyakaza, kwaye unina ukunika indawo ekunyamekeleni kwakhe;
• Iilinen zelinen kufuneka zenziwe ngeempahla zendalo, kwaye umatshini kufuneka ukhethwe kunzima;
• Qinisekisa ukuba uhlolisise umcimbi wokungabikho kwezixhobo ezibukhali ezingakhokelela ekulimaleni;
• Akunakwenzeka ukugubungela isakhiwo nge-varnish nezinye izinto ngokwazo, njengoko oku kungonakalisa umntwana;
• ukhethe umzekelo ongcono onomsebenzi wokuthintela ukuguquka.

Faka indawo yokulala kwindawo esondeleyo kwifestile ukuphepha imigca. Kwakhona, kuyimfuneko ukubonelela ngamanyathelo okukhusela okongezelelweyo kwaye uqaphele ukuba ngaphezu kwendawo yokulala yentsana abafaki imifanekiso okanye iincwadi zokufunda.

Kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba umbeleko wenzelwe iintsana ukususela ekuzalweni kwaye kufika kwiinyanga ezili-6 (iminyaka efunwa ngabavelisi). Nangona kunjalo, ekusebenzeni, ingakumbi ukuba ukhula umntwana osebenzayo, kuya kufuneka utshintshe umkhwenkwe kumbhedlele ngaphambili - inyanga kwi-4.

Ukukhetha phakathi kombhede kunye nendawo yokuzalwa kwintsana, abazali kufuneka baholelwe iimvakalelo zabo neemfuno zabo.