Ikhefu lokunyamekela abantwana

Ukuzalwa komntwana kuyona mzuzu obalulekileyo, kuba ilungu elitsha lentsapho lifuna ukuba ininzi ingqalelo kuye. Kungenxa yale njongo ukuba umthetho unikezela ithuba lokuthatha ikhefu lokunyamekela umntwana, emva koko, njengomthetho, akukho mandla ahlala kuwo kunye nexesha lokusebenza.

Indlela yokufaka isicelo sekhefu?

Ikhefu lokunyanga linikezelwa ukuba umntwana afinyelele kwiminyaka emithathu. Kuphela ixesha, umqeshwa ugcina indawo yakhe yomsebenzi kwaye ubalwa kokubili ubude bentsebenzo kunye neyodwa. Ngangoko kuyimfuneko ukucacisa, ukuba ingasetyenziswanga kuphela ngumama okanye uyise, kodwa nakakhulu ugogo, umkhulu okanye omnye umgcini. Okokuthi, nasiphi na isihlobo esisebenzisana ngqo nomntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kwaye uyamnyamekela.

Ngokwezimiselo zomthetho zokulungiswa kwezibonelelo uza kufuna amaxwebhu alandelayo:

1. Ipasipoti.
2. Isicelo sokubonelela ngeenzuzo zemali, egqityiweyo kwifom ekhethekileyo.
3. Uxwebhu oluphambili lomntwana sisatifikethi sokuzalwa .
4. Ukuba awusebenzi, kufuneka uvelise i-original kunye nekopi yencwadi yomsebenzi. Ukuba ubhaliswe kwiziko lokuqeshwa, uya kufuna idokethi eqinisekisa ukuba okwangoku akukho ntlawulo okanye uncedo lwezinto zokungasebenzi. Njengomthetho, esi sisatifiketi sefomu evunyiweyo.
5. Ukuba uyingxenye yabafundi, uya kufuna isitifiketi okanye enye incwadi evela kwindawo yokufunda eqinisekisa ubungqina bomfundi.
6. Kubabamkeli, umqulu ofunekayo uya kuba isigqibo malunga nokumkelwa okanye ukugcinwa.

Iimeko ezikhethekileyo

Iimeko ezikhethekileyo zibhekiselele, umzekelo, kwiinkcukacha zokukhupha ikhefu ukunyamekela amawele, kwaye kukho nemibuzo emininzi malunga nendlela yokufumana inzuzo. Kule meko, ukhetho luyakwenzeka xa amalungu ahlukeneyo entsapho azinyamekela, imfundo kunye nokunyamekela abantwana abahlukeneyo. Ukuquka iintlawulo zezinto eziphathekayo kuxhomekeka kwiintsapho ezininzi.

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula umyalelo owodwa olula - umthetho awuboneleli ikhefu ngexesha elifanayo ukunyamekela amawele kunye nekhefu lokubeleka malunga nokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Ngako ke, iintlawulo ziyakwamkelwa ngamalungu ahlukeneyo entsapho. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukuphawula imfuneko yokubonisa kwisicelo, apho umntwana kwaye ngubani wezalamane oza kuthatha inxaxheba ekukhuliseni kwakhe.

Ukunyamekela umntwana owenziwa ngu-grandparent, ukuyila le khetho ukuhamba ukuze unakekele umzukulu wakho, umele ukhiqize ukongezelela kwisicelo, isiqinisekiso esisemthethweni sokuba abazali abayisebenzisi ikhefu elinjalo kwaye abafumani nayiphi na inzuzo kunye neentlawulo ezongezelelweyo kumntwana. Ngaphantsi kwesi siko, isibonelelo sokunyamekelwa sihlawulwa kumgcini. Ukongezelela, uvumelekile ukuba asebenze, nangona kunjalo, kuphela kwimeko yosuku olufutshane okanye osebenzayo ekhaya.