Enyanisweni, abazali abaxhatshazi kakhulu abantwana babo malunga neenguqu ezizayo, kodwa akusoloko iimeko zabo nezenzo zabo zifaka isandla ekuququzeleleni inkqubo. Namhlanje siza kuthetha malunga nokuba kuthatha ixesha elide kunye nendlela yokuququzelela ukulungelelaniswa komntwana kwi-kindergarten, kunye nezwi ngezinye iingcomo eziqhelekileyo zeengcali zengqondo.
Iingcebiso zeengqondo malunga nokulungelelaniswa komntwana ebantwaneni
Indlela yokuphila, imigaqo yokuphila yemivumba "iyawa" phambi kwamehlo ethu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngenxa yokuba utshintsho olunjalo luxinzelelekileyo, ngoko ke akufanelekile ukuba nethemba lokuba umntwana uya kuhamba ngokunyamekileyo aze ahlale enyamekela ootitshala abasandul 'ukungaqhelekanga. Umsebenzi wabamama kunye nabantwana ngoku ulungelelanise ukuba nomoya oncomekayo, ube nesineke, kwaye ulungiselele kwaye uvelise umntwana kwizinto ezintsha ezinokubakho. Ukulandela isiluleko se-psychologist ukuba ukulungelelaniswa komntwana kwirejista kuyakhawuleza kwaye ayibuhlungu, abazali bafuna:
- kwangaphambili, malunga neenyanga ezi-2-3 ziqala ukuqhuba iintetho malunga neentlobo zontanga, unokufunda amabali amnandi ngokutyelela i-kindergarten, ngamanye amaxesha ahambe kwintsimi yawo, adlale amabali ngexesha le midlalo yokudlala;
- kuthetha nge-kindergarten kunye nootitshala phambi kobantwana kuphela. Akunjalo na unako ukunika inkxalabo yakho, umzekelo, malunga nomgangatho wesondlo okanye ubuchule bootitshala.
- malunga nenyanga ngaphambi kokuqala kokutyelela, kubalulekile ukuhlaziya ishedyuli yemihla ngemihla kwaye uyisondeza kumyezo.
Njengabantwana abaselula abaye baqala ukuya kwiziko lemfundo zangaphambi kwesikolo, iingcebiso kubazali ngendlela yokuququzelela ukulungelelaniswa komntwana kwi-kindergarten zilandelayo:
- Ekuqaleni akufanele ushiye i-crumb engadini ngaphezulu kweeyure ezingama-2;
- ngeveki, kubalulekile ukubambelela kulawulo olusekwe kwiDOW;
- ukubeka iimvumba ukuba zilale ekuqaleni kokuhlwa, ukwenzela ukuphepha iingxaki ngokuvusa ekuseni;
- emva kokutyelela i-kindergarten, umntu kufuneka abe nomdla kwindlela umntwana ayenayo ngayo imini, gxi ninisa ngakumbi kwizinto ezintle;
- kwinkqubo yokulungelelaniswa, abazali banamathele ngakumbi kwiindawo zokuhlala zentsana - zidla ngokubangela ukugqithisa inkqubo ye-nervous;
- ngexesha lakhe lokuzikhawulela ukuhlawula ingqalelo ngakumbi kwi-crumb, ukubonisa uthando nothando;
- ukukhuphela ngaphandle kokulayisha umthwalo;
- ukudala umoya ozolile kunye noxolo ekhaya;
- Abazali bafanele bahlale bezolile kwaye banokuzithemba ngexesha lokuyeka, umntwana ngokukhawuleza "ufunda" ukungaqiniseki kunye nokuxhalaba, ngoko ukuxhalaba kwakhe kuphakama;
- xa behlukana, kuyimfuneko ukuchaza ngokucacileyo umntwana ngexesha apho umama okanye uyise ezayo emva kwakhe, ngoko uya kuziva ecincileyo;
- Kungcono ukuba ucinge ngesithethe sakho sokuhamba, emva koko ungashiya ngokuphepha;
- ukuzola umntwana, kwaye uqinisekise ukuba unyoko uya kuthatha, unokulahlekelwa yimeko ngexesha le midlalo yokudlala indima okanye ufike ngebali lebali.
Enyanisweni, kuzo zonke iintshukumo zezingane ezizilungelelanisayo zenzeka ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ubude bayo buyahlukahluka, kodwa ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo, abazali banako ukwenza le nkqubo ingakhathazeki kwaye iphumelele.