Abantu abaqhelekileyo bahlala beqhawe lamaphupha, apho umntu angabagweba ngekamva. Ukuze ulwazi luchaneke kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kubalulekile ukongeza umfanekiso ocacileyo ekuqwalaseleni zonke iinkcukacha.
Yintoni umntu oqhelekileyo aphuphayo?
Intlanganiso enjalo ephupheni ibonisa ikusasa kwaye ukuba ivelise iimvakalelo ezintle, izithuba ziya kuba zilungileyo. Ukuba intlanganiso nomhlobo iphelile kwisigxalaba, ngokobomi boqobo umntu kufuneka alindele ukungquzulana, ngokomzekelo, kwintsapho, emsebenzini nakwezinye iimeko. Amantombazana angatshatanga, iphupha malunga nokuhlangana nentombazana ibulalayo, kuba ithetha ukuba kungekudala umntu ofanelekileyo uza kubonakala ebomini kunye naye uya kuba nako ukuqinisa ubudlelwane obuqinileyo. Ukuhlamba nomhlobo kwiphupha kuthetha ukuba kukho ubungozi obunzulu obunxulumene nemali.
Siza kufumanisa ukuba yintoni na amaphupha okufuna umhlobo kwisihlwele isilumkiso sokuba imeko iya kuvela xa umntu emele azikhusele izimvo zakhe. Ukuba ukukhangela akuphumelelanga, ke lowo uphuphayo unokuhlaziswa. Xa emva kokuvuswa akunakwenzeka ukukhumbula ukuba ngubani umhlobo owayephupha - kuthetha ukuba empilweni yangempela kuya kubonakala umntu oye wafuna ukulibala ixesha elide. Intlanganiso enjalo inokuba nefuthe elibi ebomini.
Kutheni umhlobo omdala ephupha?
Intlanganiso engalindelekanga nendoda ongeyibonanga ixesha elide, ephupheni, ibonisa ukumangaliswa okumnandi. Ukuba umhlobo ubangela iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, ngoko umangaliso uya kushiya iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo. Siza kuqonda ukuba ngabahlobo abadala abaphuphayo, okanye kuncoko incoko kunye nabo ngumqondiso olungileyo, obonisa ithuba lokunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Kwinye yeencwadi zephupha, iphupha malunga nabadala abaqhelanisiweyo litsholwa njengesilumkiso sokuba iimfihlelo ezikhoyo kungekudala ziza kuba yipropati yabanye abantu, okuya kubachaphazela kakubi.