Umntu ngamnye unesiphephelo sakhe kwaye akunakwenzeka ukufumana amabali afanayo, ngoko omnye uphumelele, kwaye ubomi bobanye bufana ne-roller coaster. Abantu abaninzi, obomi babo, bethetha ngobumnene "abazange baphumelele," babeya kunika ithuba elikhulu lokubhala kwakhona imbali yabo. Kule meko, umthandazo oqinileyo unokunceda uNicholas umSebenzi oMangalisayo, oguqula isigqibo. Kukho ubungqina obuninzi bokuthi busebenza ngokwenene. Abantu kwihlabathi lonke bathi ukubonga kuye bakwazi ukukrazula isifo esibi, bafumana umlingane womphefumlo, banquma iingxaki eziphathekayo, njl njl. Amantombazana aya kuNicholas ukutshata ngokuphumelelayo aze abelethe. Kukholelwa ukuba amandla ePhakamileyo awanceda bonke abantu abacela uncedo ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye bayayifuna ngokwenene.
Okokuqala, sifunda ngubani uNicholas uMmangaliso. Ubume bakhe njengomkhonzi weNkosi, wayefanelwe indlela efanelekileyo yobomi. Wayekulungele ukunceda nabani na owawufuna. Ubomi boBomi bommangaliso bukholweni kunye nenkonzo kuThixo. Ngenxa yokuba wayefuna ukukholisa uThixo nabantu, wayebizwa ngokuba nguMsindisi.
Yintoni eyenzekayo ngomthandazo kuNicholas umonakalo-Umsebenzi oguqula isigqibo?
Unokuqhagamshelana nesanta nanini nakweyiphi na indawo. Akunandaba nokuba kusebandleni phambi kobuso bakhe okanye ekhaya. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunde umthandazo ngaphandle kwezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini.
Ukuze ufumane uncedo, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokufunda ngokucacileyo umthandazo oyimangaliso kuNicholas uMmangaliso-uMsebenzi, isiguqu esitshintshayo: Umntu kufuneka aqeqeshe kuqala: ubhaptizo, ukudibanisa kunye nokuvuma.
Idilesi kwintsimi iyimfuneko kwiintsuku ezingama-40 ezilandelelanayo, akukho nto ilahlekileyo ngolunye usuku. Ukuba uthatha ikhefu, kufuneka uqale yonke into ukususela ekuqaleni. Qhubela kumthandazo ngokukhawuleza emva kokuvuswa. Kubalulekile ukuba ungathethi nabani na.
Kubalulekile ukukhokela ubomi bokulunga, ngaphandle kokutya, ukutshaya notywala ebomini. Ezi ngcebiso kufuneka zigcinwe ubuncinci kwimini yomthandazo.
Kukulungele ukufunda umthandazo ngentliziyo, kodwa ukuba kukho iingxaki kwimemori, bhala itekisi kwiphepha uze ulifunde kwiphepha. Umthandazo ongummangaliso kuNicholas Ummangaliso-Umsebenzi, ukuguqulwa kwesigqibo kufuneka ufundwe kathathu: owokuqala - ngezwi elipheleleyo, okwesibini - nge-whisper and third-about himself. Kukholelwa ukuba yiso yesithathu eyona yomeleleyo.
Ukuthandaza kuyimfuneko ngaphambi komfanekiso wongcwele, omele umiswe phambi kwakhe ngasempuma. I-icon kufuneka kuqala ihlaziywe ebandleni. Yintoni eya kuba yindleko okanye ixabiso elincinci alinandaba. Musa ukususa ngexesha lonke.
Kubalulekile ukuba akukho nto iphazamisa ngexesha lokubiza umthandazo, ngoko qha ga mshelana nomntu xa kungekho mntu ekhaya, kwaye ucime ifowuni.
Kulo gumbi apho uphawu lwakhiwe khona kufuneka luhlambuluke, awukwazi ukuxabana, ubukele iTV, udlale ikhompyutha, ulungise ukutya, njl. Kubalulekile ukugcina ubungcwele bendawo.
Ngethuba lokubhengezwa komthandazo, kucetyiswa ukuba ukhanyise isibane okanye ikhandlela zecawa phambi komfanekiso kaNicholas Ummangaliso-uMsebenzi. Ngendlela, ukusebenzisa isibane ekhaya, udinga imvume yomfundisi ebandleni lakho. Ukuba usebenzisa ikhandlela, akudingeki uyicime, yishiye itshise ngokupheleleyo.
Musa ukuxelela umntu ukuba ufunda umthandazo, kuba isakramente apho kungabikho abantu abangadingekile.
Ngexesha lokubiza umthandazo, zama ukujonga ngento oyifunayo, oko kukuthi, umntu ogulayo kufuneka azibonakalise enempilo.
Ekugqibeleni, ndingathanda ukuthetha ukuba umthandazo oqinileyo kuNicholas uMmangaliso unako ukunceda kunoma yiphina imeko, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukukholelwa kumandla alo kwaye ungathandabuzeki ukuba ungcwele uyakuva aze ancede ukujamelana neengxaki.
Umthandazo kuNicholas uMsebenzi oMangalisayo, uguquko oluza kutshintsha, uva ngathi: