Umntwana uvame ukugula egumbini lokufundela - wenzeni?

Xa uneminyaka engama-2 ukuya kwe-3, phantse bonke abantwana banikezwa kwi-nursergarten. Ukulungelelaniswa kweli xesha elitsha lobomi kuzo zonke iipaseli ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kodwa phantse bonke abazali baqaphela ukuba umntwana uhlala egula e-kindergarten. Enyanisweni, kuyafaneleka ukuvuma ukuba akusoloko kugula izifo. Musa ukwethuka kwaye ucinge malunga nento enokuyenza xa umntwana wam esoloko egula eguleni. Wonke umama ozolile kwaye onengqiqo, ekuqondeni izizathu, unako ukukunceda umntwana ukuba adlulisele ixesha lokuqala "lokunciphisa".

Siya kuqonda ukuba kutheni umntwana esoloko ehlushwa kwi-kindergarten. Kukho izizathu ezininzi:

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana bathunyelwa kwi-kindergarten ekwindla okanye entwasahlobo, xa utshintsho lweemeko zemozulu luhamba kunye nokutshintsha kwindlela yokutya kunye nendlela yokuphila, kwaye kukho abantwana abasha abangama-20 abasondeleyo. Kwiminyaka embalwa yokuqala yobomi, umntwana uguqulele kwi-microflora ekhethekileyo yentsapho yakhe kunye nekhaya lakhe, kodwa xa beza kwi-kindergarten, abantwana baqala ukutshintshisana neentsholongwane, kwaye i-immunity incest often is not ready for them. Ngamanye amaxesha oomama bayazikhusela abantwana kwizifo, kuba kukugula xa umntwana wabo ebuyela ekhaya ixesha elide. Okumangalisayo kukuba, ngabazali banzima ukunyamezela ukuhlukana kunabantwana. Kule nqanaba, ukulungelelanisa kuluntu oluncinci loluntu lubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye lukulungele ukukhusela umzimba wakho.

Abazali bamele bakhathazeke ngokunyanisekileyo?

Cinga ukuba kutheni abantwana behlala begula eguleni. Nangona umntu omdala, kunokubakho ubunzima obuninzi kwixesha elilodwa. Enye into ebalulekileyo, abazali kufuneka banikele ingqalelo kwinani kunye nomgangatho wezifo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ulula kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyanyamezela izifo, ke ungenzi isigqibo malunga nokutshintsha iqela okanye udibanise umntwana kumyezo. Le yenkqubo eqhelekileyo ye-biological, kuba umntwana omnye kwaba nezifo ezingama-5 ngonyaka uthathwa njengesiqhelo. Kwimeko apho umntwana wakho ugula ngokuphindaphindiweyo, nokuba kubanda kubandezeleke, kufuneka udibane nodokotela wezilwanyana malunga nokukhusela kwakhe kunye nethuba lokufumana ikhaya ngaphambi kwesikolo.