Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali bajamelene neengxaki, ezifana nokukhaba komntwana. Inyaniso yokuba umntwana uhlale ekhuphaza adibanise abazali abathile, eqondakalayo, aze aqale ajikeleze oogqirha abavame ukuthetha nantoni na. Kodwa apha kunye noogqirha, njengokuba bethetha, - kufuneka babe nethamsanqa. Abanye oogqirha bathi ukuhluma kuyinto ehleliyo emva kokugula, kodwa akusoloko kunjalo, ukwenzela ukuba ungaphuthelwa nantoni na, kungcono ukutyelela iingcali ezininzi zeefayili ezahlukeneyo, kuba kungcono ukuchitha ixesha elithile ekubonisaneni ukuba uncede umntwana ngokukhawuleza.
Ngoko ke, makhe sibone ukuba yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana wakho ehlala ekhula, kuba isibambiso sokunqoba sisisiseko sokuqala kwesenzo.
Kutheni umntwana egesi?
Okokuqala, makhe sijonge kwiimeko ezibangelwa le nto. Kakade ke, iingcali kuphela ezinokubeka ukuxilongwa ngokuthe ngqo kuwe, kodwa kunomdla ngakumbi ukuya koogqirha, ukulungiselela lo mcimbi nokwazi ngokubanzi malunga nokuba kutheni umntwana enomngcipheko.
- Ukukhwehlela . Njengoko sele kuthethwe ngaye, i-khykanie inokuba yinto ehleliyo emva kokugula, kwaye nayo ingabonakala ngenxa yeengxaki ezithile zengqondo, iingxaki zeengxaki emntwaneni. Kule meko, kungcono ukudibana nomdlavuza wegazi oya kuthi umyalelo wokukhusela kunye nokunikezela ngokuchanekileyo. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba umntwana wakho uyasichukumisa kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo usengqondweni, kuyona nto ibhetele ukuyiphatha kwaye usebenze ngakumbi ngothando nangomdla.
- Iifomo . Ngokuqhelekileyo, isizathu sokuba i-khykanya ingaba yimpethu . Kule meko, yenza iimvavanyo ukuchonga ezi zigulo, emva koko, emva kokubonisana nodokotela, uphuze iziyobisi kwiimbungu.
- Iingxaki ngemiphunga. Kwakhona, isizathu esithile sinokuba neengxaki ngemiphunga, masithi emva kokugula-oku
kukho ukutshaya okanye enye into. Ngoko kulungile ukuba uhlolisiswe ngale ndlela. - Iingxaki zeentliziyo . I-Khing nayo ingenzeka ngenxa yeengxaki zentliziyo, umzekelo, ngenxa ye-angina, ngoko kungcono ukutyelela i-cardiologist kwaye wenze i-ECG.
- I-allergies . Kakade, isizathu sokuba umntwana uhlale e-khykaet, mhlawumbi i-allergies. Kule meko, kufuneka ufumanise isizathu sokungabikho komzimba kwaye uyisuse.
Izizathu zento yokuba umntwana akhala rhoqo, kukho konke okuninzi. Ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo kwaye unyango oluchanekileyo kuwe lunokumiselwa kuphela ngugqirha, ngokokuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana ukhwehlela, khawuleza ubonane nodokotela, njengoko isizathu singabancinci kwaye sinzulu.