Namhlanje ingcamango yokuba "uzalana lomlingani" sele ivalelwe. Abantu abaninzi abatshatileyo sele sele bathatha inxaxheba ekuzalweni kwabo bantwana. Kodwa iqabane lokubeletha lingenalo kuphela iqabane, kodwa nanoma ngubani na umntu osondeleyo. Ukuzalwa kobambiswano kungenzeka kunye nomama wakho kunye nentombi yakho. Into ephambili kukuba umntu unokuncedisa umfazi ekuzalweni ngokuzala yonke inkqubo yokuzalwa - ukusuka kwimfazwe ukuya ekuzalweni komntwana. Umncedisi akayena nje umntu ongaphandle, unomdla osebenzayo ekuzalweni, okubangela ukuba kudalwe kwimeko engqondweni yowesifazane osemsebenzini, kumnceda ukunciphisa intlungu kunye nokuxhaswa kokubili ngokuziphatha nangokwenyama.
Ukuzalwa kwabalingani: "ngokuba" kunye "nokuchasene"
Ubukho bomyeni wakhe
Ukubeletha komlingani nomyeni wakhe kulungile kuba kwimeko enzima, njengomntwana, indoda ingenza "njengengxalaba eqinile" kunye nengqondo (umntu angakwazi ukuqhagamshelana nomfazi kunye noogqirha) kunye nomzimba (umva kunye nesifuba sinokusetyenziswa njengenkxaso ixesha lokuchasana).
Kuye "iimbambiso" zokubeletha nomyeni wakhe kunokuthiwa yinto enqandekayo yowesifazane, umntu okhuselekileyo wengqondo yengqondo (amadoda amaninzi ayaphela amandla kwigumbi lokuhambisa). Ukongezelela, ngokutsho kwamadoda athile, ukuzalwa kwabalingani kuchaphazela kakubi ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bomtshato.
Ubukho bukaMama
Unokuthatha umama wakho ekuzalweni kuphela xa intombi yakho nomama besondelene kakhulu kunye nokuthembela. Inzuzo yokuzalwa okunjalo kukuba ibhinqa elibelethayo, liqonda kangcono into eyenzekayo, phambi kwayo unakho ukulibala ngeentloni.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ubukho bomama bunokuba nempembelelo eyahlukileyo. Unina okhulelwe, onyamekela unina, ukhululekile kangangokuba uyayeka ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuzalweni. Kwakhona, kukho imeko xa umama ukhathazeka kakhulu kwintombi yakhe, ukuphazamiseka kwaye kuphazamise oogqirha kuphela.
Ubukho bomhlobo
Intombi ekhoyo kwidilesi yokubeletha inezinzuzo zikamama, kodwa ayikho inzuzo. Uyakwazi ukuqonda intombazana kunye novelwano naye, ngelixa egcina ingqiqo kunye nokulungiselela ukusebenzisana noogqirha.
Ukuphela kokungabikho kokubeletha nomhlobo kukuba, ukuba ngokukhawuleza ubuhlobo phakathi kwamantombazana abonakalo buya kuphazamiseka, ngoko ke ininzi kakhulu inokuthi yaziwa ngabantu abaninzi.
Ziza njani ukuzalwa kwabazalwana?
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuzalwa kwamanye amaqabane.
- Xa iqabane likhoyo kulo lonke lwenkqubo yokuhanjiswa. Olu khetho lufanelekile ngakumbi kulabo abatshatileyo abathembele ngokupheleleyo kwisigqibo sokuzala ndawonye.
- Xa iqabane likhoyo ekulweni, kodwa ngexesha lomzamo kunye nokuzalwa komntwana, ucelwa ukuba ahambe. Uyamenywa xa i-crumb ifakwe kwisifuba. Olu luhlu oluthe lwamkelekileyo lokuhanjiswa ngokubambisana ukusuka kwimbono yabasetyhini.
- Xa uyise emenywe kuphela xa ebeka umntwana esifubeni. Olu khetho luyamkeleka kakhulu kwi-"psyche" yesintu.
Ukuqhawulwa kwama- births kwicandelo le-calasari kumaziko ahlukeneyo eyeza unyangwa ngokuhlukileyo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba iqabane liya kuvunyelwa ukuba libe khona kwigumbi lokusebenza. Mhlawumbi ukhona kuphela ekuqaleni kwenkqubo. Kwezinye iindlu zokubeletha, amadoda alala umntwana esifubeni aze avunyelwe ukuba amnyamekele kwiiyure zokuqala zokuphila.
Ukulungiselela ukuzalwa kwamaqabane
Ukulungiselela ukuzalwa ngokubambisana, kuyimfuneko ukuya kunye nekhosi kubafazi abakhulelweyo, iqabane limele lichane ngokucacileyo indlela ukubeletha kwenzeka ngayo kwaye yintoni na imisebenzi yayo kule nkqubo.
Yintoni oyifunayo ekuzalweni kweqabane?
Ukuze ube yintsebenziswano ekuzalweni kwabalingani, umyeni kufuneka adlule iimvavanyo ezithile.
Uhlalutyo olufunekayo lokuzalwa kwamalingani luquka:
- ukuhlolwa kwegazi malunga nokuphendula kukaWasserman;
- kwiHIV;
- kwi-hepatitis;
- Fluorography;
- smear kwi staphylococcus kwimpumlo.