Wonke umfazi ngexesha lokukhulelwa ukhangele phambili kwithuba apho ekwazi ukuva ukuhamba kokuqala kwintsana yakhe. Ngokukrakra ngokukrakra kukuba loo mantombazana ahlala okokuqala ngendawo "kwindawo enomdla".
Ekubeni loo ntokazi inokuhlala ivakalelwa ukuhamba kweemvuthu, kufuneka ibeke iliso ngokucophelela uhlobo lokuphazamiseka kwaye iphawule nayiphi na inguqu ekuphatheni komntwana. Ukuphela kokungalindelekanga kokunyuka okanye ukutshintsha kwendalo kungabonakalisa ukutshatyalaliswa komntwana okanye i- hypoxia enamandla, ngoko yonke into enjalo ifanele ixelwe kwangoko ugqirha wakho.
Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala, nendlela yokuyiqonda, kunye nokuba yiziphi iinguqu ezimele zihlawulwe ngokukodwa.
Ngaloo suku ungayiva njani uvuselelo lokuqala lomntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala?
Nangona usana luhamba ngokusuka kwiiveki ezi-7-8 zokukhulelwa, kunokwenzeka ukuba uzive uvuselela kwiiveki ezingama-18 ukuya kwe-20. Ngelo xesha, bonke abafazi banomntu ngamnye kwaye banemibandela eyahlukileyo yobubele, ngoko ke eli xesha livame ukususela kwiiveki ezingama-16 ukuya kuma-24.
Ngexesha apho ukuguqulwa kwe-fetus kubonakala ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala, izinto ezininzi ezichaphazelayo. Ngokukodwa, indima enkulu edlalwa ngumbumba wesifazane okhulelwe kunye nendlela yakhe yobomi. Ngoko, intombazana ekhutheleyo iqala ukuziva ukunyuka kwengane yakhe yesikhathi esizayo ngaphambili kunokuba umfazi onamafutha anesisindo esiningi.
Ukongezelela, amantombazana athatha into enomdla kwaye engagxininisi kuphela ngexesha lokulinda lomntwana angaboni ukuba kukho ezinye utshintsho emzimbeni wazo. Ukuvakalelwa kokuqala komntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala kungabonakaliswa kangangokuthi kunokubonwa kuphela xa yonke ingqalelo yomama ozayo ijoliswe kulolu hlobo. Ukuba ibhinqa ingacingi malunga naloo nto de kube lixesha elithile, angayi kuqaphela ukuba umntwana oswini lwakhe uvuselela amandla kunye nokuphambili.
Yintoni endiyifunayo?
Ukuqala kwiiveki ezingama-20 zokukhulelwa, okanye kamva kamva, kuya kufuneka ubale inani lokunyuka komntwana ongakazalwa. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zezi. Kanye kunye nodokotela okhulelwa, kufuneka ukhethe indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu kwaye uhlale ucinga ukuphazamiseka.
Kwixesha elidlulileyo lweeveki ezingama-20 umntwana usenza malunga nokunyuka kwama-200 ngosuku, kwixesha elivela kwiiveki ezingama-26 ukuya kuma-32-malunga ne-600, kwaye emva kolu xesha, umsebenzi wakhe wancitshiswa kakhulu. Ngokwemvelo, umama ozayo unokubona kuphela inxalenye encinane yale ntshukumo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngexesha lokuvuka kwexesha elizayo, unokuvakalelwa malunga no-10-15 ukutshatyalazwa ngeyure. Ixesha lokuzola ngokuqhelekileyo lingathathi ngaphezu kwama-4 iiyure. Qiniseka ukuba udibane nodokotela kwaye uphumelele kuzo zonke iimvavanyo eziyimfuneko ukuba uzive uhamba kunye nexesha elide lokuzola.
Ukuhamba kokuqala komntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala kufuneka kusebenze xa umama ezolile. Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ugxininisekile, umntwana unokuyeka ngokufutshane okanye, ngokuchaseneyo,
Ukongezelela, umntwana uhlala esabela kunye nokunyakaza okusebenzayo kwindlala umama olindelekileyo. Emva kokutya, umntwana usoloko ehlalisa aze ahlawule. Ekugqibeleni, kwiimeko ezininzi umntwana usebenza ngokuhlwa kwaye ebusuku, emini nasemini, loo ntokazi ibona inani elincinci lokuphazamiseka.
Emva kwexesha uzakusetyenziswa kwaye uqaphele isimbo somntu ngamnye weentshukumo zentsana yakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngexesha lokulinda komntwana, lo mlingiswa ugcinwe, ngoko ke nayiphi na inguqu ingabonisa ingxaki ebomini kwintsana ezayo.