Ubhaptizo lomntwana - ufuna ntoni malunga nonyoko?

Ukuzalwa komntwana kwintsapho akulungiselelwe kuphela ngabazali besikhathi esizayo, kodwa nakwezinye izalamane. Esi sisiganeko esikhulu, apho intsapho kunye nabantu abasondeleyo balindele ukungaphelelwa ngumonde. Emva kokuba umntwana kunye nomama bevela ekhaya esibhedlele, abazali baqala ukucinga ngokuqhuba umtshato wobhaptizo. Lo mbhiyozo ulungiselelwe ngokufanelekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oomama bazama ukufumanisa kwangaphambili okokukwazi ngokubhaptizwa komntwana.

Ukulungiselela umcimbi - ulwazi ngolomama

Imibuzo emininzi iphakanyiswayo malunga nexesha lokuqhuba umkhosi. Akukho migaqo ecacileyo kulo mbandela. Kuvumelekile ukuba ubhaptize usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa ukusuka ngomhla we-8 wobomi bakhe. Kodwa umama kufuneka akhumbule ukuba akakwazi ukuya ecaweni iintsuku ezingama-40 emva kokubeleka. Ukuba i-sakramente ibanjwe ngeli xesha, loo mfazi akayi kukwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba. Kwakhona, akukho mntu makangenakungena ethempelini ngexesha lokuya esikhathini kwaye kufuneka kwakhona kuthathelwe ingqalelo.

Kubaluleke kwakhona umbuzo wokukhetha oothixo. Bamele babe ngabantu abasondeleyo abakulungele ukuthatha inxaxheba ekukhuliseni umntwana. Umama amantombazana kufuneka aqonde ukuba kubantwana ababhaptiziweyo banokwanela kuphela oothixo. Ngelo xesha, abazali bafana benokuzimela kuphela xa bekhetha u-godfather. Kodwa nangenxa yale nxaxheba ungamema abantu abambalwa. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba kukho ukunciphisa ezithile ekukhethweni koothixo. Abakwazi ukuba:

• umyeni nomfazi;
• abantwana (oothixo kufuneka abe ubuncinane ubuneminyaka engama-13 ubudala, kunye noyise-15);
• Abazali abanakuba ngabantwana bakaThixo ngabantwana babo;
• engeyona iOthodoki, engabhaptizwa.

Ngaphandle koko, ukhetho alukhawulelwanga. Unokumema abahlobo abasondeleyo okanye ezinye izihlobo kule nxaxheba ebalulekileyo. Into ephambili kukuba abantu bafanele baqaphele uxanduva olubhekiswe kubo.

Kwakhona, umama makaqwalasele okokubeka kubhaptizo lomntwana. Kweso sihlandlo umfazi ngamnye ufuna ukujonga i-smart. Kodwa kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba kukho imigaqo yokutyelela icawa efuna ukuhlonishwa. Umama kufuneka agqoke ngeengubo ezantsi kweedolo, iimpahla kufuneka zifake izandla. Awukwazi ukulibala malunga ne-headcarf kunye nenyaniso yokuba kufuneka kube nomnqamlezo entanyeni. Musa ukwenza ukwakheka okukhanyayo. Kwakhona kungcono ukuyeka izicathulo ezinesithende, kuba umthendeleko uhlala ixesha elide, kwaye umama unako ukhathala ngeli xesha. Isigqibo esilungileyo siya kuba ukukhetha izicathulo ezintle.

Ngentando, ibhinqa liyakwazi ukulungiselela ukubhiyozelwa kwesi siganeko, setha itafile uze umeme iziindwendwe. Isithethe esinjalo siye sahlala ixesha elide, kodwa ukuba sigcine okanye cha, abazali banquma.

Ukuthatha isiko - unyoko ntoni xa ubhaptizwa?

Abanye abesetyhini bayethusa ngenxa yokungakwazi zabo izithethe. Baxhalaba kukuba baya kudideka etempileni, kuba abazi into yokwenza. Kodwa ungesabi oku. Ngaphambi kokusebenza kweSakramente, abaphathiswa becawa baya kuxela ngokucacileyo malunga nokuba izinto ziya kwenzeka njani. Kwaye ngexesha lokwenziwa komsebenzi, apho kunjalo, kuya kubakho.

Kodwa indima yomama ngexesha lobhaptizo ayilona lukhulu. Sekugqibeleni, umbingeleli ufunda umthandazo wakhe unina. Ingaba ngumntu ngamnye ukuba i-christenings ibanjwe ngokwahlukileyo kumntwana omnye. Ukuba iintsana ezininzi zibhaptizwa ngexesha elifanayo, ngoko oomama amaninzi bafundelwa umthandazo kwangoko. Emva kokuyifunda, abafazi kufuneka benze umnsalo wehlabathi wesithathu. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka siqale sizenzele. Emva koko kufuneka uguqe kwaye ugubungele intloko yakho. Emva koko kufuneka uvuke kwaye wenze kabini ngaphezulu. Kodwa kungekho kuzo zonke iicawa zifuneka ukuba zenze loo nto. Emva koko, simele sithathe umntwana usuke ezandleni zomfundisi. Yonke into eyenziwa ngumama xa ubhaptizwa. Kwezinye iicawa, umfazi usenokuba egumbini apho isakramente ibanjwe khona. Kwabanye, kunokucelwa ukuba baphume kwaye batyelele ekupheleni. Ngokumalunga nale mpawu mazingacetyiswa.