Ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana kwiinyanga ezine

Xa iqela lokuqala lobomi bentsana lishiywa ngasemva, umama onothando uyakhathazeka, okokuqala, oko kufuneka umntwana akwazi ukukwenza kwiinyanga ezi-4 kwaye ingaba uphuhliso lwakhe luqhelekileyo okanye alukho. Emva koko, utshintsho, zombini kunye neengqondo, lubonakala. Imilinganiselo yomzimba wengane iphantse ifike kufuphi nabantu abadala, kwaye yena unomdla ngakumbi kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo kwaye ubonisa amandla akhethekileyo ngolwazi lwakhe.

Yintoni enokuyenza umntwana kwiinyanga ezine?

I-crumb kule minyaka ingamangalisa abazali abaneenkqubela phambili kwizakhono zabo nemikhwa. Masifunde ngokubanzi:

1. Iintsana ziphantse zaphelisa ukuphela kweengcamango zokubamba ngokungazibandakanyi, ngoko ngoku uvalele intonga yakhe kuphela xa efuna ukumbamba into ethile. Le nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ekubeni umntwana ufunda ukulungelelanisa ukuhamba kwaye, ngokwabo, ukulawula umzimba wakhe. Olu buchule luyenzeka ngokuphuculwe ngokuqhubekayo kwenkqubo ye-nervous.
2. Izakhono ezisisiseko zomntwana kwiinyanga ezi-4 zibandakanya umnqweno ongeyena nje ukuba uthathe into oyithandayo, kodwa uqwalasele ngenyameko, uyiguqule, uyithumele emlonyeni. Ingane inokuziva iinkcukacha zetekisi, zitshintshe, zidibanise kwiindawo ezinzima, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, kungekhona ixesha elide. Lo ngumsebenzi onzima wokwenyama kumntwana wakho ngaloo minyaka.
3. Amabele afunda ukuziphendulela, kungekudala kuphela ukusuka emva kwisisu, kodwa kwakhona. Le ngenye yeendlela ezisisiseko zokuphuhliswa kwabantwana kwiinyanga ezi-4, kodwa ungakulibali ukuba umngcipheko wonyana okanye intombi ewela kwi-swaddler okanye i-sofa yanda kakhulu. Ngoko ke, ukuphepha ukulimala kunye nemivimbo, kudla ukubeka umntwana phantsi: kungekudala ixesha liza kufika xa uya kufunda ukufumana izinto ezithakazelisayo ngoncedo lweziqhekeza ezininzi.
4. Sekusele iinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba umntwana ahlale, uqala ukulungiselela eli nqanaba elibalulekileyo lobomi bakhe. Ebudeni beenyanga ezine uzama ukuphakamisa amanxeba akhe aze ahambe ngentloko, njengokungathi uzama ukuhlala phantsi. Kodwa omnye akufanele atyala ngokukhethekileyo umntwana wakhe: iimisipha kunye namathambo akhe awakulungele oku.
5. Ukuqiqa okufuneka umntwana enze ntoni kwiinyanga ezi-4, phawula ukuba uphuhliso lwakhe lujoliswe ngokulungiselela ukukhwela. Ngoko ke, xa elala emgodini, uzama ukuphakamisa imbongolo aze achukumise imilenze. Khuthaza olu buchule lungaba, emva kokusasazeka phambi komdlali omtsha ophanda amathoyizi, apho uya kuzama ukufikelela khona.
6. Ingane ikhula ngokubonakalayo kunye nokuva. Ngoku uyakwazi ukucacisa ngokucacileyo izinto kumgama we-3-3.5 m kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo ukuhlola imeko yegumbi okanye umhlaba ojikelezayo. Ukuphulaphulwa kwakhona kuphuculwe: umntwana uhlukanisa izandi ezifanelekileyo, ngokukodwa izwi lomama, uyaziqonda iimpawu zabo.
7. Ukusuka koko umntwana angakwenza kwiinyanga ezi-4, abazali baya kuhlaziywa ngentuthuko yakhe yentetho. Emva koko, wayefunde ukuxelisa abadala kwaye bakhupha izilwanyana ezilula ezifana "ba", "ma", "pa". Kwakhona, intombazana leyo ihamba ngokunyanisekileyo, ikhupha kwaye idla ngokumomotheka ngunina, icetyisa ukuba ingene kwinhlobo yeengxoxo.
8. Izakhono zentlalo kunye nobuchule bomntwana kwisithuba seenyanga ezi-4 zihamba ngokumangalisayo. Sele sele ehlukanisa ngokucacileyo abantu abazungezile ukuba "bangabakhe" kunye "nabangamaziyo", ngokusabela kwisigxina ngokukhala nokukhathazeka. Kwinqanaba "labo" ngokuqhelekileyo bewela kulabo abancinci abona imihla ngemihla okanye ubuncinci imihla ngemihla, kuba imemori yesikhathi eside ayikho kakuhle kakuhle. Ngokubhekiselele kwiintsapho, umntwana ubonakalisa ukuhlalisana ngokumangalisayo, owamkholisa ngokumomothekayo, ukuhleka kokuhleka kunye nezandi ezahlukeneyo.