Ukubonakala komntwana kukuvuyela umama wonke. Nangona kunjalo, kunye nokuzaliswa kwintsapho, kukho iingxaki ezininzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfazi unomsebenzi ongekho nje kuphela ukunyamekela umntwana, kodwa nokulawula uqoqosho. Konke oku kuthatha umgudu omkhulu, kwaye ukufumana imizuzu yokukhulula kube nzima kakhulu.
Oomama abancinci abancinci bokuqala abanakukwazi ukwabela ixesha labo, kwaye ke umbuzo wendlela yokwenza yonke into ngentsana iyafaneleka.
Ndikwazi njani ukwenza yonke into ngomntwana omncinci?
Okokuqala, kufuneka uthabathe incwadi kwaye ubhale yonke into ofuna ukuyenza ngethuba lemini. Iirekhodi ziyenziwa ngokuhlwa ngokusingqongileyo, xa umntwana esele elele. Ekubeni yonke into ayinakuyenza yintsana, kuyimfuneko ukugqamisa izinto ezibalulekileyo kwaye ucwangcise usuku lwakho ukuze ubuncinane uzalisekise. Kwaye ezinye iimeko zinokudibaniswa, umzekelo, ukuhamba kunye nohambo ukuya esitolo ukuthenga.
Ixesha elide lichithe ukupheka. Ngako oko, kucetyiswa kwakhona ukucwangcisa imenyu yesidlo sakusasa, isidlo sasemini kunye nesidlo sakusihlwa . Kufanelekile ukunciphisa ixesha lokucoca kunye nemveliso yokucoca. Ngokomzekelo, ngosuku lokucima, unokuhlambulula kwaye udibanise izaqathe, uthinte anyanisi kunye neminye imifuno, uwafake kwiingxowa kwaye ubhafele. Ngethuba lokupheka, thobela kuphela inani elifanelekileyo. Ngale ndlela, ungasindisa ixesha elininzi.
Iphutha eliqhelekileyo ukupheka xa umntwana elele. Kungcono ukuchitha eli xesha. Kwaye unokupheka nomntwana. Ngokomzekelo, njengendlela yokukhetha, faka ekhitshini uze ubavumele ukuba bahlume ngeepayi okanye kubhontshisi. Ukuba umntwana usemncinci, ke yibeke nje kwisihlalo semoto okanye umqhubi, okufutshane nawe. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwanele ukuba iintsana zibone umama wazo kufuphi. Ukucoca okukhuselekileyo kunokukwenziwa kuphela ngeveki. Kwaye ngeveki zentsuku zanele nje ukugcina umyalelo.
Emva kokukwazi ukubeka phambili phambili, nokuba umbuzo wendlela yokwenza konke nabantwana ababini uya kugqitywa.