Uhlala ujamelana nani nesimo sengqondo sengqondo sabanye? Umntu obekezelayo uyahlala evuyisa ukujongana naye; nangaphambi kokuba umntu lowo afune "ukuthatha inqanda yakhe" ngenxa yokuba uyaziphethe ngayo athi: "Ndiyayixabisa imbono yakho nenhlonipho ngenkululeko yokucinga, kwaye ngoko ke kukukhuthaza ukuba usebenze kwindawo yokuphila ".
Ukuqulunqwa kwengqondo
Ukuba sithetha ngemvelaphi yokuvela kweemeko zokunyamezela eNtshona Yurophu, isiseko salo kwakuyimfundo yenkolo, impembelelo, kukuthi kusayinwe kwe-Edict yaseNantes. Ngombulelo kulo mthetho, amaKatolika namaProtestanti analingana namalungelo, kokubili kwimicimbi yokungena kumaziko emfundo nokufumana unyango.
Ukuba sicinga imvelaphi yokuziphatha okunyamezelayo kumzekelo womntu oyedwa, ngoko ke iimbono zokuqala malunga nokulungileyo nokubi, imiqondo yokuziphatha ngokubanzi yenziwa nakwixesha lokufunda. Ukuqhubela phambili kulo, emva kweminyaka, kumntu omdala kunzima ukutshintsha naziphi na izimo zengqondo neengcamango.
Izimpawu zobuntu obubekezelayo
- Ukuziqonda, ukuqonda ukukhuthazwa kwezenzo zakho. Abantu abanjalo bavame ukuhlalutya amandla abo kunye nobuthathaka. Xa kukho iingxaki, abakhathaleli ngamangalelwa kwabanye. Bavame ukuzithobela ngokugxeka ngokweqile. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngaphakathi komntu ngamnye kukho "mna-mhle" (indlela ofuna ukuba nayo) kwaye "Ndiyinyaniso" (okwangoku). Ngoko, umntu obekezelayo phakathi kwezi ngcamango ezimbini kukho umda omkhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba, ngokuqhelekileyo, abahambelani.
- Ubuntu obunjalo buvela kwinqanaba lokhuseleko, ukhuseleko. Abafuni ukuvalela kuluntu, ukuba babalekele.
- Ngokuphathelele uxanduva, abantu ababekezelayo abayitshintshi kwabanye.
- Bajwayele ukuqonda ihlabathi elibajikelezile kwimimandla eyahlukileyo, engabaluleli abantu kwizinto ezilungileyo nezimbi.
- Ukuzimela, ukuqhelanisa, okokuqala, ngokwakho, kokubili ekuboniseni nasekusebenzeni.
- Umntu obekezelayo unako ukuziva isimo sengokomoya sesinye. Akunjalo kwizinto ezifana novelwano .
- Zihlekise wena? Ngokulula. Uya kufumana iphosakela kuye aze amhlekise, eqinisekisa ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana indlela yokulahla le mpazamo.