Unqobe iingcamango ezinjengelizwi elithi "Kutheni ndingenayo inkwenkwe ixesha elide" okanye "Ndiyinto enhle, kodwa loo nto ayinayo into enokuyenza"? Khangela ukhangele ngakumbi abantu abakujikelezile, mhlawumbi ngenxa yamava akho awuqapheli umntu ovela kwindawo yakho engabonakalisa ezo zinto zibuhlungu. Ukhangelelene? Akunakho omnye umntu onokuthandayo? Ziziphi na amanyathelo akho alandelayo? Waphinde waqala ukucinga malunga nento enokuyenza xa kungekho mntu kwaye kutheni ndingenayo? Konke okulungileyo, ukucinga okuvuthiweyo kwinkinga akuzange kubonakalise nabani na, kodwa akukho konke okufunekayo ukuxazulula le ngxaki. Hayi, ewe, ukuba awukhe wagqiba isigqibo, ukuba ufuna umfana okanye akunjalo, njengokuba ungenawo, unokuyeka kwisiteji sokubandezeleka kwiwindi kwaye ungenzi nto. Yaye ukuba, njengoko bethetha, kufuneka usebenze ngakumbi.
Ndivuyiswe ngam amehlo
Ihlabathi elithekileyo elingaphakathi, ukufunda ngokugqibeleleyo, ukukwazi ukuxhasa incoko yonke impawu eziyimfuneko kunye nezifanelekileyo. Kodwa, ngelishwa, yonke le miba emihle iya kuhlala ingaziwa kwabanye ukuba awukhangeleli kakuhle. Emva koko, nakuwuphi na uluntu, sihlanganiselwe yimpahla, akunjalo wena, ukhangele abafana, ungayithobeli ingqalelo yabo? Kwaye ngenxa yokuba isikhulu sakho sakwazi ukukwahlula kwisihlwele, kufuneka ulungele kakuhle. Ngoko inyathelo lesinye ixesha lihambo ukuya kwisibuko kunye novavanyo olubalulekileyo lokubonakala kwakho. Kucacile ukuba sonke sihle kwaye sithandeka nje ngento efana ne-dushechki. Kodwa ngoku, ekhangele ingcamango yakho, ngaba unokutsho oko? Ewe? Yaye ukuba ucinga ukuba le nto ifoto yintombazana engaqhelekanga? Ngandlela-thile akunjalo, kunjalo? Ewe, ngoko silungiselela ukungaphumeleli kunye neeposiso kumfanekiso wethu. Ewe, kunye nomsebenzi ojamelene nawo, iinwele, i-makeup, i-manicure, i-pedicure kunye neengubo, kulungile? Emva koko lixesha lokubonisa ukubonakala kwakho okusha kwihlabathi kunye nokulungelelanisa ukunqoba kwimpumelelo yothando. Emva koko, ukuzithemba kuyinto engundoqo yokuphumelela.
Ndingumhle kakhulu!
Ukujikeleza ngekristri kwaye njalo, kwaye banakho ukunika ingcaciso enye malunga nokubonakala kwabo "Umfuziselo - umdiliya, ubuso berry, kunye neengubo ngokuqhelekileyo ukubonakalisa imfashini kunye nesitayela? Kwaye kutheni unyanzeliso olunjalo alufunwa ngabani na? Umbuzo, okwenene, unomdla. Ndixelele, nceda, kodwa ngaba uhlala ubonisa ubuhle bakho? Cinga nje uhambo olujikelezayo lwesikolo (umsebenzi) kunye nekhaya azinakucingwa - kusasa zonke iinkosana zilele, kwaye ngokuhlwa ziphupha ngokutya kunye nokuphumla, ukwenzela ukuba umnqweno wokufuna kwisihlwele ukuba, akukho nanye. Uchitha kuphi iveki yakho ekhaya? Ewe, ewe, kunye nendoda yamaphupha akho, mhlawumbi, kufuneka avulele umnyango ngokwakhe? Ukukhawuleza uphume ekukhanyeni, naphi na, nakwiqela, nakwipaki ukuhamba. Ewe, ukuba uyakuthanda ukuchitha ixesha ekhaya, ungayithandi iziza zokuthandana? Ewe, amathuba okuba ungene kumntu ongonelanelekanga, kodwa kulungelelaniso kunye nokudibana ngokwenene-akunakwenzeka ukuba umbonise umntu ekuqaleni. Ngoko silahla konke ukwesaba, kwaye ngokuzithemba sisuka ekukhangela umntu, kwaye kwintanethi okanye kwilayibrari, kuya kuwe.
Ewe, ndiyena mntu unentlalontle emhlabeni!
Oku kwenzeka kwakhona, kwaye ngokuphindaphindileyo, iintombi zineentombi ezininzi, kodwa intanda, yedwa kuphela ayikho.