Ngaba wakha wacinga ngombuzo wokuba kukho ulwimi ngaphandle kwamagama? Hayi? Kodwa ngelize. Ewe, cinga malunga nokuba lukhulu kangakanani ukuza kuluntu kwaye ukwazi ukuthetha malunga neemvakalelo zakho kumntu obhekiswe kubo, kwaye abo bajikelezeyo abayi kuqaphela. Ubuhle - kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhangeleka, okanye ukuhleka, yonke into ihamba kakuhle kwaye iphelile. Yintoni, ndiyabuza? Sifanele siqinisekise ukuba ulwimi olunjalo lukhona. Kwaqulunqwa ezininzi kangangamakhulu amabini adlulileyo ngamantombazana enkundla kunye nabazalwana ukuba batshintshe imimiselo engemiqathango kwaye bangabhenki. Kwaye kuthiwa ulwimi lweelesi okanye iimpukane. Ngoko ke, sikumema kwindawo engavakaliyo yeenkuthazo zenkundla, apho unokufunda khona iimpawu zokuzalwa ezibhekiselele kubuso babantu nabasetyhini, kwaye zichaphazela njani iinjongo zabantu.
Ukususela ezinzulwini kwiinkulungwane
Ukuphuma, abafazi be-17, 18 neye-19 bathatha ingcinga malunga nendlela baxelele ngayo abathandekayo babo ngendawo kunye nexesha leentlanganiso okanye bathi banomdla othile. Kodwa kwakunyanzelekile ukwenza oku kungabonakali kwabanye kunye nomyeni wakhe, ukuba ukhona. Kwaye kuya kubakho ukuhleka, ukuhleka, ukuhlazeka kwihlabathi elithembekileyo. Abafuduki bafika ekuhlanguleni.
Ewe, ukuba indawo ye-mole yendalo ebusweni bakhe yayisekuhleni, kwaye ukuba akunjalo. Ukungabikho kwesicatshulwa esicacileyo kwathatyathwa yintlanzi okanye umfanekiso wesakhiwo. Ngoko, iimpawu zokuzalwa zithetha ntoni ebusweni bowesifazane walelo xesha? I-mole okanye intshukumo ekhoneni lomlomo wakhe uthembisa umhla wokuthandana kunye neenkcukacha ezintle. I-mole kwikona langaphandle lelihlo lasekhohlo lithetha ngokutya, kunye nekona lemehlo lasekunene- "andikubonanga". Indiza ebunzini ithi "ndilahlekile ngcamango," kwaye i-mole ephezulu ngaphezu kwetshe - "Ndiyamangaliswa." Kwaye le nto yinto encinci efikelele kwiintsuku zethu, eneneni, ukhetho lukhulu kakhulu. Kubuhlungu ukuba belahlekile kwiinkulungwane ezilikhulu.
Amajoni exesha lethu
Yaye yintoni na iimpawu zokuzalwa ezibhekiselele kubomadoda nabasetyhini banamhlanje? Namhlanje kuyindlela entsha. Ngelungiselelo le-moles yemvelo ebusweni nakwezinye iindawo zomzimba, umntu unokufunda okuninzi malunga nesimo kunye nesimo senkosi yaso. Masibuye sijoyine umazi weli nkulungwane kwaye sijongane nokutyunjwa kweempawu zokuzalwa ebusweni bethu bemihla ngemihla. Mhlawumbi siya kufumana into enomdla ngathi.
Ngoko, ukuba uphawu lokuzalwa lufumaneka ebunzini, lubonakalisa umnini walo njengomntu ohlakaniphile nophumeleleyo kwimpilo kunye nentsapho. Kwaye, eyona nto iphakathi kwebala lokuzalwa, libhetele. I-mole ephezulu kwinqaba elifanelekileyo okanye lithembisa umnikazi wengcebo kunye nempumelelo kwisini esahlukileyo, kwaye ilungiselelo elifanayo lophawu lokuzalwa kumntu osekhohlo luchaza ngokuzikhethela ngotywala kwaye lixela ukungaphumeleli kunye nokudumala. I-mole ehlala eduze kwamehlo, ithetha, ukuba lo mntu ulungile kwaye uyanyamekela. Nangona kunjalo, naye unesiphelo esisodwa, oko kukufuna umdlalo wokuthandana. Ubomi bomntu onjalo buya kuba butyebi, lunomdla kwaye luzaliswe ngeziganeko ezahlukahlukeneyo, ukuze angayi kumkhumbula okanye yena. Ukuba i-mole imisele indawo ebalaseleyo njengempumlo, ixela ngesibindi ihlabathi lonke ukuba inkosi yayo yindoda enobukroti, ngokuthe ngqo kwaye ikhawuleze. Kwaye, ngelo xesha, ungumhlobo othembekileyo othembekileyo, owamenza nje ngendoda encinci, kwaye njengendoda encinci okanye intombazana.
Nazi izinto ezinomdla ezinokuzifihla kwizinto zansuku zonke ekuqalekeni. Ngoku siyazi kwakhona ukuba i-moles impawu ebusweni bendoda okanye ibhinqa kunye nokuba ingabachaphazela njani i-future master of theirs. Ungayiphatha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ungakholelwa kwaye wamukele ulwimi oluyimfihlakalo ngaphandle kwamagama, kwaye unokuligxotha njengento engenamsebenzi kunye neentsilelo, kufike kuwe. Kodwa ubomi bemihla ngemihla bunzima kakhulu, kutheni ungayifaki kumbala wecala elimnandi.