Nangona enye yeengcamango eziqhelekileyo zijika inja ibe yintshaba enkulu yamakati, eqinisweni, yonke into iyahluke, kuba idlalwa ngabemi bezilwanyana ezahlukeneyo abaqala ukulwa. Ukunciphisa abaphambili phakathi kwabo akuwona umsebenzi olula, kuya kuthatha ixesha kunye nomonde. Ulungele?
Indlela yokwenza abahlobo phakathi kweekati ezimbini?
Ukuzisa isilwanyana esitsha kufutshane nexesha elidala liye lagqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo, kufuneka kuthathwe amanyathelo okukhusela. Okokuqala kufuneka ulungiselele umbhede omtsha, isitya kunye nesitya sokuqala, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuba ube neenkcukacha ezintsha zeekati kude nabantu abadala. Eyona nto iya kuba yinto yokuqhelanisa ne-smells ngaphambi kokudibana nezilwanyana ezimbini, ngenxa yoko, ngaphambi kokuba ulethe ikati yesibini endlwini, sula izilwanyana ezimbini ngesaliti emanzi uze ubavumele ukuba bafunde isandi.
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze izihlobo phakathi kweentaka ezikhulile, fumana ibhokisi okanye ikheji ephathekayo, apho uzisa khona isilwanyana esitsha esikhulayo. Vula umnyango wesango ukwenzela ukuba isilwanyana sishiye imida yaso ngokuthanda, kwaye ixesha elidala linalo ixesha lokujonga umtsha. Ngelo xesha, ushiye ikati yesibili indawo yokubuyela kuyo, vumela zonke iingcango zendlu zivuleke ukuze isilwanyana singaphunyuka xa kukho nantoni na.
Indlela yokwenza iikati ezimbini ezindala? Kulula kakhulu-ukulawula le nkqubo kwizilwanyana. Ukuba iikati zixhomekeke komnye (kwaye oku kunokwenzeka), zihlukanise ngokukhupha ngamanzi, zimboze ngombhoxo, okanye uphakamise ngeengalo ezahlukeneyo ngoncedo lwenduku. Ungasebenzisi izandla zakho, ngaphandle koko unobungozi ukuba yinxalenye yeklabhu yokulwa nekati. Ukuba ingquzulwano ayifuni, isasaza ikati kumagumbi ahlukeneyo kwaye wenze enye inzame ngosuku olulandelayo. Emva kweveki okanye ezimbini, izilwanyana zisetyenziselwa ukuvumba komnye nomnye kwaye ziqale ukwahlula intsimi ngaphandle kwemida.