Kuba nayiphi na umntu, indawo entsha, umlutha kwabanye abantu kunye neemfuno zabo, ihlala ibangela uvuyo, ingakhathazeki, ngamanye amagama - imeko yoxinzelelo. Ngoko umntwana, xa siqhelana naye kwi-kindergarten, isesimo sokuxinezeleka. Kusemandleni abazali ukufundela umntwana wabo kwi-kindergarten ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa kwemilinganiselo yokuziphatha, ukwazi indlela yokuyilungisa nendlela yokunceda ngexesha lokuzilungelelanisa.
Ixesha lokutshintshela kwi-kindergarten
Ukuguqulwa kwamanzi kuqondwa njengenkqubo yokulungiswa komntwana kwindawo entsha kunye nemeko yakhe. Ngomntwana ngamnye, inkqubo yokulungelelanisa kwenzeka ngokuhlukileyo. Kodwa izazi zengqondo zihlukanisa ezintathu zeentlobo zayo:
- ukukhanya - kwiiveki ezimbini ukuya kwinyanga enye;
- umyinge - ukusuka kwenyanga ukuya kweyesithathu;
- enzima - ukusuka kwiinyanga ezintathu ukuya ezintandathu.
Xa uqikelele umlinganiselo wokulungelelanisa, kufuneka uqaphele ukusebenzisana komntwana wakho kunye nabanye abantwana kunye nabakhathaleli, isantya sokutshintsha kwakhe, njengoko edla aze alele egadi.
Ngokulungelelanisa ngokulula, umntwana akahlali ehlazekayo, nangona ekhwaza xa ehlukana nonina, kodwa ngoncedo lomnakekeli unokutshintsha ngokulula, udlale nabantwana ngokuzonwabisa, udla ngokuthula kwaye alele.
Ngomlinganiselo oqhelekileyo - umntwana uyakhala xa ehlukana nabazali kwiinyanga ezimbini, kodwa unokuphazamiseka ngento ethile, ukhuthaze ukuba adlale, ngamanye amaxesha adle ukutya kwaye alele.
Ngokulungelelaniswa okukhulu - umntwana uyakhala imihla yonke enkundleni yezilwanyana ezinyangeni eziliqela, ephazamiseka kakhulu yimidlalo okanye abantwana, akafuni ukudlala nabani na, akalala kwaye adle kakubi. Kule meko, unokucetyiswa ukuba uthabathe umntwana ngaphambi kokuphela konyaka kwaye uyiswe kule elandelayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukusetyenziswa kwintlobo yesibini kulandela iphethini elilandelayo: umntwana uqala ukuhamba kwi-kindergarten ixesha elincinane (iiyure eziyi-2-3), ngoko uyasetyenziselwa kwaye ixesha lakhe enkulisa liyakhula ukuba lilale, ke lilale, ize lifike kulo lonke usuku.
Indlela yokulungiselela umntwana kwi-kindergarten?
Ukulungiselela i-kindergarten kukuba abazali kufuneka bafundise okanye ubuncinane baqale ukubafundisa:
- ukudlala yedwa;
- ukulala kunye nokutya ngexesha elifanayo (kuyacetyiswa ukuba wazi kwangaphambili urhulumente wegadi kwaye ulungele kuyo);
- sebenzisa ngokuzenzekelayo ibhodwe;
- uzidle uze uphuze emgodini;
- ukulala ngokuzimela ngaphandle kokugula kwesifo kunye nokuba khona komama;
- ubuncinane iingubo ezincinane kwaye uzikhuphe;
- ukunxibelelana nabantwana abangaqhelekanga nabadala.
Ukongezelela ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezingentla, xa uthengela umntwana iimpahla kunye nezicathulo ze-nursergen, cinga ukuba kufuneka zifanane nexesha kunye nobungakanani bomntwana, zibe nezibophelelo ezifanelekileyo kunye nokuzimela.
Ukulungiswa kwemithetho kwi-kindergarten
Ukulungelelanisa umntwana kumyezo wawuphumelele, kukho iingcebiso ezininzi kubazali, kodwa ezi zilandelayo zilandelayo:
- uzame ukugcina urhulumente wegumbi lokufundela nasekhaya, ngeveki;
- Musa ukuyikrakra umyezo, kungcono ukuthetha ngomyezo kuphela.
- emva kokugula ngokukhawuleza kungashiyi usuku lonke, kunika ithuba lokuba usebenzise ngokuthe ngcembe;
- bathetha ekhaya malunga nendlela idlula ngayo imini engadini;
- Qiniseka ukuba uthetha umntwana, ukuba uyamthanda, oko aya kukwenza ensimini, kwaye uya kubuyela kuye;
- Musa ukubonakalisa ukunganeliseki ngesimo sengqondo kubantwana bokufundela umntwana;
- Musa ukukhawuleza ukushiya umntwana ixesha elide kumyezo, umntwana ngamnye unomlinganiselo ohlukeneyo wokuhlala;
- uhlawule ingqalelo kumntwana wakho, ingakumbi kwiintsuku zokuqala zokutyelela: kunye naye ukudlala, ukuhamba, ukuthetha;
- mvumele umntwana afumane ukulala ngokwaneleyo, kufuneka abuyele amandla akhe, kuba e-kindergarten uchitha amandla amaninzi kunye nomoya.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba umntwana kufuneka abe nomuzwa wothando lwakho, ukuzithemba kwimpumelelo kunye nenkxaso kule nkqubo enzima ukulungelelanisa ne-kindergarten.