Yintoni esifanele siyikhusele abantwana?

NgoJuni 1, unyaka wonke, iholide enkulu igujwa - Usuku lwaBantwana. Uninzi lwabazali belindele phambili kulolu suku, balungiselela izipho ezintle kubantwana babo baze baye kwiindawo ezininzi zokuzonwabisa. Okwangoku, bambalwa abantu bazibuza ukuba kutheni leli holide lifumana igama elinjalo, kwaye kwinto efunekayo ukukhusela abantwana namhlanje, ngo-2016.

Yintoni esifanele siyikhusele abantwana ngoJuni 1?

Enyanisweni, kungekuphela ngoJuni 1, kodwa nakubomi bonke abantwana kufuneka bakhuselwe kwimpembelelo yendawo engalungileyo. Namhlanje, zonke iintsana, ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala, zichithe ixesha elide phambi komboniso wethelevishini okanye ikhompyutha.

Kwiimidlalo ezahlukeneyo zevidiyo, iifilimu kunye neemifanekiso, iziganeko zobundlobongela okanye ukuziphatha kakubi kubalingiswa zivame ukuboniswa, ezinokuthi zibe nefuthe elibi kakhulu kwimeko yengqondo yomntwana kwaye ibe ngumzekelo omhle kuye. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, oomama kunye nabagadi kufuneka bajonge ngokunyanisekileyo oko umntwana wabo abanomdla kwaye banqande ukubukela okungalawulwayo kwemiboniso yeTV, iifilimu kunye nezinye iinkqubo zokuzonwabisa.

Ukongezelela, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantwana bahlala bejongana nodlova ngokomzimba okanye ngokwengqondo esikolweni nakwamanye amaziko emfundo. Lo mbuzo ungowona unzima kakhulu, kwaye kaninzi umntwana akakwazi ukujamelana nayo ngaphandle kokunceda ngaphandle. Okwangoku, izenzo ezingekho mthethweni kwizithuba zothisha akumele zithatyathwe. Abazali, emva kokufunda malunga nokuphulwa kwamalungelo abantwana babo esikolweni, bafanele benze konke okusemandleni ukuphumeza ubulungisa nokugweba abenzi bobubi.

Ebudaleni, ubomi bomntwana bunzima ngakumbi. Umntu omncinane okanye intombazana ayikwazi ukujamelana neemvakalelo zabo kwaye uqala ukuphatha yonke into ngokungathembeki okukhulu. Uninzi lwabazali kweli xesha elibunzima lilahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo yintembelo yomntwana wabo, kuba abazi ukuba baziphathe njani naye. Umntwana osusayo ususwe kumama noyise, kwaye ngenxa yoko udlalwa yinkampani embi ebangela ukuba atywala kunye neziyobisi. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo umzamo omnye okanye ezimbini ukuzama izinto ezivinjiweyo zanele ukwenza ukuxhomekeka okuqhubekayo. Enyanisweni, ukukhusela umntwana wakho kule nto kunzima kunzima, kodwa oku kufanele kube yinto ebalulekileyo kubazali ngexesha lokudlula komntwana wengxaki enkulu.

Ekugqibeleni, kwezinye iimeko, oomama nooyise kufuneka bakhusele unyana okanye intombi yabo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuqonda, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo siba sisizathu sendlela yokuziphatha kakubi komntwana kunye nokuphulwa kwengqondo yakhe. Ngokukodwa, abanye abazali bavumela ukuba batshayele kwaye bajezise umntwana nangenxa yezinto ezingenasiphoso ezingenacala, ngokungaqondi ngokupheleleyo ukuba uyaziphatha ngenxa yeempawu zeminyaka.

Umbuzo wokuba kuyimfuneko ukukhusela abantwana kunzima kakhulu kwaye ifilosofi enzulu. Enyanisweni, iintsapho apho umntwana ngamnye ejikelezwe ngothando kunye nokunyamekela akajongani nengxaki yokukhusela inzala yabo ngoJuni 1 okanye nayiphi na imini. Thanda abantwana bakho kwaye wenze konke okuxhomekeke kuwe ukuze bahlale ngokuthula kunye nokuvisisana nabanye.