Iintlukwano ziphambano zexesha elifutshane zeemisipha zesisu. Kwinqanaba lokugqibela lokukhulelwa, abasetyhini banokuhlangabezana nokuchasana. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Inyaniso kukuba ngaphandle kokulungiswa kwangaphambili kwesibeleko sokubeletha, kuya kuba nzima kuye ukujamelana nomthwalo onzima ongalindelekanga. Ukuqeqesha uqeqesho kunceda ukulungiselela isisu ngenxa yokuzalwa kunye nokunciphisa intamo.
Kwimibuzo yokuba xa uqeqesho luqala, akunakwenzeka ukuphendula ngokungaqinisekanga, kuba lo mntu uqobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo zivela emva kweveki yeshumi lekota, kodwa zingabonakala kwangaphambili, kwaye emva koko. Ngamanye amaxesha azinjalo.
Ngethuba lobudlelwane boqeqesho, ukuvakalelwa kunokuba luqine kwaye lubuhlungu, kodwa kwezinye iimeko azibonakali ngokupheleleyo kumfazi. Yonke into incike kumbango wayo wobuzwe.
Zibukeka njani ukulwa nokulwa?
Ibhinqa ivakalelwa intlungu kwisisu esezantsi, efana neentlungu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Ukongezelela, ukuxhatshazwa nobunzima obubesiswini. Ngezinye iintlungu ubuyisela.
Uqeqesho olunobunzima
Inyaniso yokuba izicatshulwa zokulungiselela zihamba neentlungu ziqhelekileyo. Ukuba ngethuba loqeqesho luthintela ukuvakalelwa lubuhlungu kakhulu, thatha ihafile elifudumeleyo, yenza ukululaza okulula kwesisu. Zama ukuphazamiseka.
Indlela yokunquma ukulwa?
Okokuqala, kufuneka ubale ixesha eliphakathi kwezinto ezichaseneyo. Ukulwa ukuqeqeshwa akungaqhelekanga kwaye kudlula ngokukhawuleza. Qaphela ukuba ixesha elide ukuqeqeshwa kuqhubeka njani. Bangakwazi ukuhlala kwimizuzu embalwa ukuya kwemizuzu emibini, akukho nto. Ukuqhekeka kwabasebenzi ngokugqithiseleyo ngaphezu kwemizuzu emibini, bahamba kwaye bahamba kunye nokuhoxiswa kwamanzi. Kungenxa yezi zizathu ukuba unokukwazi ukwahlula iimfazwe zobuxoki ezivela ngokwenene.