Ukuba uphakathi kwabo, sinikeza imibono, yintoni enokuyenza ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ukuze uchithe iinyanga ezimbalwa ezizayo ngenzuzo.
Ukuzilibazisa kubamama abalindele
Akunandaba nokuba yintoni umfazi okhulelweyo oya kwenza ngexesha lakhe lokungcebeleka, into ephambili kukuba loo nto yokuzilibazisa iyayenza imvakalelo yakhe emihle kuphela, ngoko ayiyi kuba nexesha lokuthukuthela ngaphezu kwezihlwele. Inketho enhle kakhulu kuba oomama abalindeleyo luhambo olumnandi. Nangona kunjalo, ubunzima bezemali kunye nempilo engafanelekanga yeso sizathu sokungalawulwa kweso sihlandlo. Emva koko umfazi uphoqelekile ukuba acinge ukuba enze ntoni ngexesha lokukhulelwa ekhaya. Kule meko, kuya kuba kuhle ukuqala ukufunda iilwimi zangaphandle, kuba akumnandi nje kwaye kunomdla, kodwa kuncedo. Ukwandisa izinga labo lokuzifundela ngale ndlela, emva komyalelo uya kwenzeka ukuba ufake isicelo esiphakamileyo.
Lahla i-blues uze uzise iingcamango zakho ukwenzela ukunceda umsila. Yiloo nto enokuyenza ekhaya nakuwuphi na umfazi okhulelweyo. Ukuqhafaza, ukugaya, ukugcoba, ukupaka, ukutshitshisa, ukuhlambalaza-namhlanje kukho izikhokelo ezininzi ezenziwe ngezandla ukuba wonke umntu angayifumana into ayithandayo. Oogqirha bancomela abasetyhini ukuba bakwazi ukubandakanya emculeni, ngokukodwa kwi-classic. Le yindlela efanelekileyo yokuvisisana nokuthula kwengqondo. Ukongezelela, inzondelelo enjalo yokuqinisekiswa kweengcali iza kuthintela kakuhle ukubunjwa komntu wengane.
Oku akulona uluhlu olupheleleyo loko umfazi okhulelwe angenza ekhaya. Abafazi besesikhundla bakhetha ukufunda, ukudala ubugcisa bokutya, ubuchule bokukhwebula.