Oomama amaninzi ngexesha lamabali malunga nokuziphatha kwengxelo yomntwana ukuba iipatto okanye iindaba zomntwana zincinci zincinci kakhulu kunezo ntengiso. Enyanisweni, umntwana angayihoxisa ngokupheleleyo iTV aze afumane ifilimu elandelayo. I-Croche ibukeka kwesikrini kunye nobuqhetseba kunye nokumomotheka, ingahleka okanye ihleke. Abantwana abadala abakwazi ukufunda izibongo kakuhle, kodwa bakhumbula ngokukhawuleza ukubizwa kweentengiso.
Kutheni abantwana beba "lula" kwintengiso?
Nathi thina, abantu abadala, emva kweengcebiso zomhlobo okanye umgcini okhuselayo othe tye uya kuthenga kuphela i-detergent okanye i-toothpaste esemgangathweni. Asinakucinga nangona kutheni sithatha le nto okanye loo mveliso, nangona ekusebenzeni oko akusoloko iyalungisa. Ingongoma apha ingakumbi ingcamango yengqondo ngengcaciso. Siyayiqonda kwaye ngexesha elifanayo hlola ukuqinisekiswa. Yingakho naluphina "uphando", izinto ezingekhoyo zisinceda sikholwe.
Konke kulula kakhulu kubantwana. Bavele besabela kumfanekiso okanye ukunyakaza, isandi okanye imvakalelo esuka kwesikrini. Umntwana "uhlamba" kwingoma kwaye uyayikhumbula ngokukhawuleza. Ngaba uqaphele ukuba zonke ii-slogans kunye neengqungquthela kwiividiyo zifutshane kwaye zilula? Ngenxa yoko, ingqondo ayifuni ukucinga nokucwangcisa ulwazi, inikwe ifomu elungiselelwe ukusetyenziswa.
Zonke iikopi zenziwe ngendlela enokuthi isithombe sitshintsha njalo kwaye umntwana angatshintsha. Njengoko uyazi, abantwana abakwazi ukugxila ingqalelo kwinkalo enye, oku kusetyenziswa ngempumelelo ngabakhangisi. Kubantwana abadala, ulwazi lubonakala luhluke kakhulu. Phantse ekuqaleni kwesikolo umntwana uqala ukulungelelanisa uluntu kwaye angene kwiqela kuye kubaluleke kakhulu. Oku kudlalwa ngempumelelo ngenkampani zentengiso, ukuthengisa i doll yefestile ukuba zonke "iintombazana ezipholileyo" zinayo.
Umhlaba ongeyonto encinci yi-awareness of adolescents. Iimpawu zefestile kwinqanaba ngalinye ligxininisa ukuba kuphela kwi-sneakers, iikhati, iebhatyi okanye iimpahla zokugada eziza kubonakala zipholile. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba eli lixesha alinakwenzeka kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo liqala ukubunjwa kwezakhiwo. Ewe, unganakuthenge njani iifrimu zefestile, ukuba sele sele zintombi kunye nabo bonke abafana? Oku kusebenza kwizixhobo eziphathekayo kunye neempahla.
Ubonakala njani ngokusebenza?
Emva kokufunda, ngokuqinisekileyo uqikelele ukuba isigqibo sokuba umabonwakude ngeemvuthu ziyi- taboo. Ngelishwa, ngale ndlela ingxaki ayinakuyisombulula. Siza kufuneka silungiselele umzabalazo obuninzi kunye nemiphumo. Kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu, zama ukuvula iTV kumntwana. Yaye ukuba ithengiso iqalisa, kungcono ukucima isandi okanye utshintshe ishaneli ukuze umntwana aqale ukuyiqonda njengento engabalulekanga kwaye engathandekiyo.
Ukuze siqalise, siya kuqonda "intshaba ngomntu" kwaye sicacise uluhlu lweendlela ezenzeka ngayo abantwana beeminyaka ezahlukeneyo.
- Abantwana abaselula kwivenkile banokukucela ukuba uthenge enye okanye i-chocolate bar, idonsa okanye enye into engeyomfuneko. Ukuba i-crumb kule minyaka, xa unokuvumelana kwaye uchaze, ngaphambi kokuya esitolo, soloko ubhala ndawonye uluhlu oluyimfuneko kwaye uyavuma ukuba yiziphi "iibhonasi" onako ukuzifumana.
- Kubantwana beminyaka yobudala kungcono ukusebenzisa ezinye iindlela. Basele bakwazi ukuqonda ngakumbi kunye nengozi yokuthengisa ubhiya, i-vodka okanye i-cigarettes inokuqiqa. Kule meko, ukujonga
kufuneka kube kunye kuphela, kwaye zonke iimpahla zivunyelwene kwibhunga lekhaya. - Xa ulutsha, le nto inzima kakhulu. Nantsi kungcono ukuhamba ngendlela, ubuqili. Njengomthetho, bonke abaselula bayicinga ukuba baneminyaka eyaneleyo. Zama ukuthetha nabo kwinqanaba elifanayo. Akufuneki ukuba uthembise into ethile, kwaye ke ungayithobeli isithembiso sakho. Xoxa ngeendleko zakho zezimali ngenyanga kwaye wenze isigqibo sokuba unokufumana ntoni. Kwaye zonke iifrimu zefestile okanye ama-blouses azama ukuthenga kunye, isithixo somntwana wakho kufuneka ube nguwe, kungekhona iqhawe elivela kwisikrini.