Ukuzithemba kuthiwa yinkimbinkimbi yemvakalelo kunye neenkolelo zomntu ngaye. Indima yokuzihlonela kwabafundi akusiyo kuphela ekufundiseni kakuhle, umntwana onengqondo yokuzixabisa iinjongo zokuphumelela kunye nobomi. Ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo kukuqinisekisa ukuba uphuhliso oluhambelana nobuntu. Umfundi ongakhuselekanga ebomini bakhe omdala uya kuba yimpumelelo.
Yintoni echaphazela ukubunjwa kwe-student school high school?
Ukuqulunqa ukuzithemba kweso sikolo esikwiminyaka yobudala kwaye kugqitywa iminyaka engama-6-8. Ingabandakanya uvavanyo lwakho, isikhundla sakho kwikomiti yesikolo, imisebenzi yakho, ukusebenza kwezemfundo. Ukufunda ngokuzithemba kwabafundi besikolo abancinci kubonise ukuba kubantwana beli xesha ubudala ukugxeka kwabo kuphuhliswa kakuhle. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuyo nayiphi na ingxabano, umntwana uya kuthi umlingani wakhe kuphela ulungile. Ukwakhiwa kokuzithemba kuphethwe yintsebenzo emihle yemfundo, enceda ukufumana udumo kwigumbi lokufundela. Kubalulekile ukuba bakwazi ukuthetha kwiqela. Isitayela sokuba ngumzali sichaphazela ukuphuhliswa kwezantlonelo zabafundi abancinane. Kwintsapho apho umntwana ehlaziswa khona, ekhubekileyo, engadunyiswa, abantu bakhula bengakhuselekanga.
Akunzima ukwenza ukuxilongwa ngokuzithemba ngabantwana besikolo abancinane. Dweba ilayithi lama-7 amanyathelo kwiphepha, ulibale kwaye ucele umntwana ukuba ahlele abalingana nabo ekilasini ngale ndlela: kuma-1-3 amanyathelo - abafana abalungileyo, aba-4 - abafana nabalungileyo nabangendawo, kuma-5-7 amanyathelo - angalunganga. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, zibuze ukuba uzibonakalise kule ndawo yokufuzisela. Ukuba umntwana ukhetha inyathelo eli-1, oku kubonisa ukuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo, 2-3 - malunga nokwaneleyo, u-4-6 ukuzithoba.
Indlela yokwandisa ukuzithemba komfundi?
Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana abe nova inkxaso kuqala kubo bonke abantu basebantwini-abazali. Abantu abadala banokuphucula umbono wengane malunga nabo. Ngoko, iingcebiso ezimbalwa:
- Zama ukuncoma umntwana wakho ozithandayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwimpumelelo encinci, kwaye ubonise uthando lwakho nokuzikhukhumeza kuye.
- Fumana imisebenzi apho umntwana uya kuphumelela khona - ukukhamba, ukudweba, ulwimi lwangaphandle, njl njl.
- Yiba ngumkhuseleko wabantwana, inkxaso, inkxaso. Zama ukuhlala uhlangothini lwakhe. Ukwazi ukuba unokholo
"Emuva", omncinci uya kuziva eqinisekile. - Ukwandisa isangqa sentlalo yomntu, uqhelane naye nabantwana bakho nabahlobo bakho.
- Nika kwicandelo lezemidlalo okanye isangqa: iimfuno ezidibeneyo, umzabalazo wokuphakama, umoya weqela ugalelo ekukhuliseni ukuzithemba kwabantwana abasesikolweni abasesikolweni.
- Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athi "Hayi!".
Kwaye, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuzama ukuphucula ukuzithemba komntwana wesikolo esikolweni esiprayimari, abazali kufuneka babe ngumzekelo omhle.