Ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwabantwana aluphelelanga ixesha elide, kuba iiyure ezithandathu kunye neyesithandathu zivule imini nobusuku azizange zibe nefuthe elihle kumlinganiselo wobisi. Kodwa oku kwakungadingeki, ngokuba umxube ophezulu waseSoviet "Baby" wawubekwe njengento eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokutya umntwana.
Amaxesha ashintshile, kwaye oomama baye bafunda ukuba ukuncelisa ixesha elide, eliyinzuzo kakhulu kwimpilo nokuphuhliswa kwengane, ayinakuhlukaniswa phakathi kokulala. Akunjalo nje kuphela ngenxa yoluhlu oluyimpumelelo, kucetyiswa ukuba unina nomntwana balele kunye . Xa umntwana evakalelwa ukufudumala komama malunga nama-24 iiyure ngosuku, uya kuba noloyolo kwaye unethemba, kwaye umama unethuba lokulala okungcono. Okubi kakhulu xa wayevuka kumntwana kaninzi ebusuku, wamondla, aze abuyele kwisibhedlele, ephulaphule ukukhala kwakhe.
Kodwa ixesha lifika xa umama nomntwana befuna ukulala ngokwahlukileyo ukuze bathuthuzele kwaye bazincwane zombini. Ukondla kuphephile kwaye umntwana akasadingi ukunxibelelana okunjalo kunye nokuhlala rhoqo kunye nonina. Kodwa, ngokwenza oko, kuvela, akulula ukuhambisa umntwana kude, kungekhona kwigumbi elilodwa, kodwa nakwicala lakho. Ukuqonda indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba alale kwisibhedlele sakhe, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ungayenza nini, ukwenzela ukuba ungalimazi umntwana wengqondo engozini.
Ubuncinane obudala bokulala ngokuhlukileyo
Ngoko, sele sinqume ukuba umntwana uvunyelwe ukulala nabazali bakhe xa esondla ngokwemvelo. Ukuba umntwana ungumntu ongokoqobo, ngoko akukho mqondo ukumbeka embhedeni, kuba ngobusuku abantwana abanjalo banokuphuka kwisondlo kwinyanga engama-1, kwaye bazinqabile ngokukhawuleza.
Nangona uvumele umntwana onokuzilalisa ukuba alele embhedeni womzali, oko kuya kuba nzima ukuwadlulisela kwi-nursery eneminyaka engama-1-2, kodwa ngexesha, xa oku kungenziwanga ngexesha, kuya kuba neengxaki zokubeka umntwana ukuba alale embhedeni wakhe .
Unokudlulisela umntwana kwisitya esahlukileyo emva kokuphela kokuncelisa, kodwa kufuneka uyenze ngokuthe ngcembe, kuba umdala usana luba nzima kunzima ukuba alungele izinto ezintsha. Ubudala bonyaka kunye nesiqingatha kunyaka lukhulu, kuba izibini ezimbini, izicwangciso zeminyaka emithathu ziya kuba nzima kakhulu, kwaye nabazali banokuqinisekiswa ukulala ebusuku.
Buchule
Oomama abaninzi bayaxakeka, bengayiqondi indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba alele ebhedeni. Yaye inyaniso kukuba akunakwenzeka ukwenza oku ngamandla, kwaye ayisebenzisekanga:
- ukubeka umntwana kwisibhedlele, kufuneka ube khona, xelela inganekwane okanye uhlabele iillabies, ade alele;
- umphumo omuhle uzisa imikhosi yokuhlwa - ukuhlamba, ukubeka iidodoli ebhedini, kwaye emva komntwana ngokwakhe. Kulungile xa umntwana ephethe ithoyilo elithandayo, apho angayi kuba yedwa enqabeni yakhe;
- indlela enomdla, xa umbhede womntwana ushiywe imihla ngemihla ukusuka kumzali, ngokoqobo umthamo omnye, uzama ukuqinisekisa ukuba umgama ukhula ngokuthe ngcembe. Ngaloo ndlela, emva kwenyanga, unokuzama ukuhambisa umntwana egumbini lakhe lokulala;
- Uncedo kakhulu kumba wokufundisa umbhede ubusuku obuhle obukhanyayo. Ngokuncedwa kwakhe, ukulala kuya kuqhutyelwa inqaku elihle, ngakumbi xa lihamba neenganekwane;
ukulungiswa kwizikole, iphepha lodonga kunye namaqhawe akho ozithandayo, i-baby bedding - konke oku kwenza umntwana aqiniseke ukuba sele sele ekhulile kwaye elele ukulala embhedeni wakhe.
Naliphi na iindlela ezibandakanyekayo ekukhuliseni umntwana kwisibhedlele, ungakulibali ukuba into ephambili kule shishini ihambelana. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba uthe watsho umntwana ukuba usele mkhulu kwaye ufanele alele ngecala, ke namhlanje awukwazi ukuphula umthetho wakho kwaye umbuyisele ekulala. Kuyinto engathandeki ukuba idlulisele umntwana kumbhede ohlukeneyo, xa egule, amazinyo akhe atyunjwe, okanye ukuhamba okanye esinye isenzakalo esibalulekileyo siphula kwintsapho.