Igama elithi "snobbery" alitholakali kwintetho yanamhlanje, kodwa into ebonakalayo inokufumaneka nakweyiphi na indawo. USobob uzibheka njengongaphezulu kwabanye ngenxa yokuba ngumntu okhethekileyo. Ukholelwa ukuba ufanelwe inhlonipho, nangona ngokwenene ukuzingca, ukuzidla nokuzikhukhumeza kwe-snob kubangela ukuba abantu bangabikho kuye baze babangele.
Snobbery - yintoni na?
Ukucinga ngale nto, i-snobbery - yintoni enye, kufuneka iphendule kwi-etymology yaleli gama. Ngokubhekiselele kwimvelaphi yegama elithi "snobbery" kukho iinguqu ezahlukeneyo, kodwa zonke zibilisa phantsi kwinto yokuba umntu othile uzibeka ngaphezu kwamanye. Kwisixekisi eli gama lisiwe kwii-18-19 zeenkulungwane, xa zathi i-snobbery inqwenela ukuba ngumntu ophakamileyo. Kwaye i-snob yayisoloko ivela kwiindawo ezilula zabantu, kodwa kwindlela yonke ebonakalayo yazama ukubizwa ngokuba yindoda evela kwiibonda eziphezulu.
I-Snobbery ingatyunjwa njengendawo yokubaluleka kwabantu. Ngokuxhomekeke kwisigaba esabelwe umntu, i-snob ikhetha indlela yokunxibelelana naye. Unxibelelwano lwakhe lukhethiweyo: indlela ekhohlakeleyo kunye nalabo abangaphantsi kwinqanaba, kunye neengqungquthela kunye nabangaphakathi kwabo abafuna ukungena. Le ndlela yokuziphatha ingadibaniswa nokungacaciseki nokungafaneleki ngokumalunga nabantu abakujikelezile.
I-Snobbery ingahlakulela kwenye yee-spheres okanye idibanise ubunzima:
- i-snobbery;
- snobbery;
- abantu abacebileyo;
- snobbery.
I-aesthetic snobbery - yintoni na?
Ngenxa yobugcisa babo, abantu bezobugcisa babonakaliswa ngumbono we-aesthetic snobbery. Bazibona bebulumko, bulumko kwaye bafundiswa, kunokuba abameli bezinye izakhono. Ngenxa yoko, kukho uluhlu olukhethekileyo loluntu, olubizwa ngokuba yi-snobbery kwaye ludibene nesifo se- stellar . Impembelelo ye-snobbery yimbangela yokuzalwa kobuxoki, ukuziqhenya nokuzithemba ekuphakameni kwayo.
Izizathu ze-snobbery
Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuvela kwe-snobbery:
- yintsapho apho yonke into yayinokuthi iqhube khona;
- I-snobbery yephondo ingakhula isifiso sokubalekela kwindawo "yelali";
- nempembelelo ekuhlanganyeleni emsebenzini;
- ukuzingca, apho umntu engaboni iimvakalelo kunye neminqweno yabanye abantu;
- ukunciphisa nokunyaniseka kokucinga, ngenxa yoko i-snob ibona kuphela ukuziphatha ezithile kunye nezici zobuntu ukuba zichaneke kwaye zibalulekileyo;
- ukuzithemba, umntu ozama ukuhlawulela ngokunyuka kwakhe kwimeko kunye nokuthotywa kwabanye.
I-Snobbery yimiqondiso
USobob ngumntu ozijonga njengomntu oqaqambileyo kwaye ufanelwe inhlonipho enkulu kunabanye, ngoko ke iimpawu eziphambili ze-snob zi:
- iingcinga ezahlukeneyo malunga nabantu beentlobo ezahlukeneyo;
- ukuxhamla;
- Ukuzithemba ukuba yindlela yakhe yokujonga kuphela eyona nto ichanekileyo;
- Ukunganaki abantu abangahambisani neengcamango kunye nenqanaba lomqondo we-snob;
- bazibonakalisa ngokwabo kwintsapho ekhethekileyo, i-intellectual elite, ukhilimu woluntu;
- Ukungaqiniseki kwezinye iingxaki zabantu kunye namava;
- ukuzithoba.
Snobbery - enhle okanye embi?
I-Snobbery yinto engcolileyo, kodwa izazinzululwazi zisoloko zithatha into yokuba i-snobbery ibe yinto embi ebantwini. Ngokweengqondo, i-snobs ngabantu abanomboniso omkhulu. Bathanda ukuzungezela ngezinto ezintle kunye nabantu abalungileyo. Baziva bebukeka bumnandi bemvelo, bathanda ukutyelela iimyuziyam, ukufunda iincwadi zeteknoloji, ukuya kwimidlalo. Abayithandi ukuziphatha okungaqhelekanga, ukunyaniseka, ukuhamba ngendlela engaqhelekanga, ubugcisa obuphantsi. Icala elihle le-snobbery, kodwa likhokelela kwimiphumo emibi.
I-Snobs zihlula ngokwahlukileyo kwiiklasi eziphambili kuluntu. Ukuzijonga njengabalingani, bonke abo abangahambisani neengcamango zabo, banokufaka into. Abanye abantu kubo bangabalingani besibini, abangenanto kwaye bengakufanelekanga ukunakwa. Ukongeza, ii-snob zichasene nazo zonke izinto ezintsha, ezingaqhelekanga, ezingezizo zendalo. Bathetha ukuba kuphela inkcubeko yeklastiki kunye nezithethe ezamkelekileyo ezifanelekele ingqalelo yomntu ofundisiweyo. Nangona bona ngokwabo abanalo ulwazi lwangempela kwintsimi yenkcubeko.
Snobbery kunye nohanahaniso
I-Snob kunye neengxaki zimbini ezihlukeneyo. Badideke omnye nomnye ngesizathu sokuba bobabini bokuqala neyesibini bazibheka ngaphezu kwamanye kwaye babheke abanye ngokunyaniseka. Ngaphandle koko, ezi ngcamango ziyahlukana. USobob ukholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ubhetele kunabanye, ukuziphatha okumsulwa kunye nokukhulisana. Ufuna ukuthetha kuphela kunye nohlobo lwakhe kwaye uzama ukuhlangabezana nemigangatho yabo.
Ngokungafani ne-snob, i-prude ayinayo imilinganiselo ethile. Iimfuno zakhe zihambelana nabanye abantu abafuna ukufundisa ubomi, ubeka izimvo kubo. I-Hanja yindoda ebhekiswe kumibini eneemigangatho emibini. Akaboni iimpazamo zakhe, kodwa uhlala ebona ubunzulu bezono zabanye. Ufundisa abantu abazungezile, ezama ukubonisa yena nabanye ngokungahambi kwakhe, ulwazi okanye ukuthanda izinto eziphezulu.