Abo babesele banqwenela ukunciphisa umzimba ngokuqhelekileyo, bathambekele ekusebenziseni imilingo enceda ukufumana oko bafuna. Kuyafaneleka ukutsho ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwiimpawu ezifihlakeleyo akusoloko kukhuselekile, kwaye ukuba awuzange wenze umlingo kwaye ungenayo imimiselo kunye nokufa, kunokwenzeka ukuba akuyi kuba nempembelelo, okanye ngakumbi, kunokuba kungafani. Kungcono ukuqhagamshelana nomqeqeshi oza kubamba iqela lokulahlekelwa isisindo kuwe.
Iqhinga kunye nemigangatho isebenza njani ukulahlekelwa isisindo?
Kukholelwa ukuba imikhosi enamandla kunye neendlela zokulahleka kwesisindo kunokubangela ukuba umzimba ulahlekelwe isisindo, ungafuneki ukutya okanye imidlalo evela kumntu ngokwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, oku kuthetha ukuba amandla oya kukufumana ekudleni aya kutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle komnqweno kunye neenjongo ezingacacileyo - kuba kuphela ngenxa yamandla angaphantsi kwento esetyenzisiweyo, ungaqala inkqubo yokwahlula kwamafutha. Yaye ukuba udla izinto ezifanayo njengesiqhelo, ngoko amandla akho aya kuhamba apho, kwaye akukho bani uthembisa ukuba uya kukhuseleka.
Cinga kathathu xa kukufanelekile ukuqhubeka nobudenge bakho kwaye usebenzise isithethe xa unako ukukhawulela ukutya kwakho.
Ulungelelwano oluqinileyo lokuLuthwa kwesisindo
Lo mkhosi unokubhaptizwa kuphela. Kodwa khumbula, ekufezeni isenzo esinjalo, usebenzisa amandla aphezulu aphezulu, ngoko ke uyona.
Njalo ebusuku, ukuqala ngosuku lokuzalwa kwenyanga, funda "uBawo wethu". Ukugqiba oku kuphela ngaphambi kokuba imini iza kuzalwa inyanga. Umthandazo kufuneka uhlasele iindawo ezinengxaki. Phakathi kwemithandazo, ujonge inyanga, phinda uthi: "Oko ndijonga ngayo, kuya kudibaniswa. Into endiyinyayo, iya kuphumla . "
Into ephambili ayiyikudideka kunye nemijikelezo yenyanga, ngaphandle koko umphumo unokungaqiniseki.