Ngaba ndiyakhulelwa ngokukhawuleza emva kokubeleka?

Umbuzo wesidingo sokukhulelwa kwezokwelapha ukhuphaza kubo bonke abafazi abasandul 'uva nje uvuyo lwabazali. Oku akumangalisi, kuba ukubuyiswa emva kokubeletha, omama omncinane nomzimba wakhe, kuthatha ixesha elide.

Phakathi kwabameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo kukho uluvo lokuba ngexesha lokuqhubeka nokuncelisa, kwaye kude kube ngumzuzu xa umama omncinane eqala ukukhulelwa kwakhona, akakwazi ukukhulelwa. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo amantombazana ayafumana kwakhona iimpawu zendawo "ezithakazelisayo" kwisithuba seenyanga ezintathu emva kokunikezelwa.

Ekubeni le meko ingasenza sisimangele, ngamnye umfazi kufuneka aqonde ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukuba ukhulelwe ngokukhawuleza emva kokubeleka, kwaye kwiimeko zingaphi iindlela zokusetyenziswa kweendlela zokukhulelwa kuyimfuneko. Kule nqaku siya kuzama ukuqonda oku.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe ngokukhawuleza emva kokubeleka?

Kwimbono egcinwe ngokubanzi ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe ngokukhawuleza emva kokubeleka ngexesha lokuqhubeka nokuncelisa, kukho inani elithile lenyaniso. Ngoko, kwezinye iimeko, i-lactation ikhuselwe ngokwenene kwi-100% ukusuka ekukhulelwe, kodwa kuphela phantsi kweemeko ezithile, oku:

• ukususela kwixesha lokuhambisa lidlule ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintathu;
• Umama usebenza iziqhekeza kwibele ngenxa yokufunwa kwaye ubuncinane ama-8 ngosuku;
• ukuphuka phakathi kokutya kungapheli iiyure ezingama-5, kubandakanywa nobusuku;
• umntwana usetyenziswe kuphela ngebele, akukho zongeziweyo ezongezelelweyo ezisetyenziswayo.

Ekubeni zonke ezi ngcebiso zizaliswa yincinci nje encinci yabamama abancinci ngexesha elifanayo, amathuba okukhulelwa emva kokusondeza baninzi kubo, kodwa oogqirha abazi kakuhle ukuba yiyiphi into. Ukuba ukukhulelwa okutsha akufaki ngokucwangcisiweyo kwizicwangciso zakho, kukulungele ukunyamekela ukuthintela kwayo ngaphambi kokubuyiselwa kobudlelwane bezesondo rhoqo kunye neqabane lakho.

Yintoni endiyenzayo ukuba ndikhulelwe ngokukhawuleza emva kokubeleka?

Kwezinye iimeko, ukukhulelwa kungenzeka, nangona iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokukhulelwa kwezilwanyana zisetyenziswa. Ngokudla kaninzi oku imeko iyatshitshisa umama omncinci, kuba akayilungele ixesha elitsha lokuzala umntwana kwaye akazange alindele ukufumana "isikhundla" sakhe.

Ukongezelela, musa ukulibala ukuba kwezinye iimeko, umzekelo, ukuba umfazi ubelethe umntwana wokuqala ngecandelo lokulahla, oku kunokuba yingozi. Yingakho xa ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa kokuqala kubalulekile ukunxibelelana nodokotela. Ugqirha oqeqeshekileyo uya kuba nako ukuvavanya zonke iingozi ezikhoyo kwaye uza kukuxelela ukuba kulungele ukuzala umntwana wesibini okanye kunye naye kungcono ukulinda encinane.