Kubantu abaninzi, unyaka wokuqhayisa umqondiso weengxaki, iintlungu kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zobunzima. Oku kuchaza ngokucacileyo ukuba kukho iinkolelo ezihlukahlukeneyo, ezithintekayo kwiimeko ezininzi. Kwabaninzi, into ebangalisayo yinkcazo echaza ukuba ingaba nokwakha ibhafu kunyaka wokupheka.
Inkcazo encinci: unyaka ogqithiseleyo awuhlali kwiintsuku ezingama-365, kodwa usuku olude, olongezelelweyo, olongezelelweyo ngenxa yokuba uMhlaba uphawula i-Sun ngenani elichaziweyo kunye neeyure ezingama-6. Zizo iiyure ezongezelelweyo ezihlawulelwa ngumnyaka wokuqhawula, owenziwa rhoqo kwiminyaka emine.
Kutheni ungeke ukwazi ukwakha ibhafu kunyaka ophelileyo?
Kubantu bokuhlamba baphathwa njengendawo evumela ukuba uhlambulule kuphela umzimba, kodwa umphefumlo. Ngokubhekiselele kumbandela okhoyo, ibhebha yindawo apho ihlabathi langempela kunye nezinye idibeneyo. Okwangoku, kukho imimangaliso enomdla ehambelana nale ndawo, umzekelo, kukho ibali malunga nomoya ohlala kwindawo yokuhlambela kwaye ebusuku ubutha zonke iimoya ezimbi. Oku kuchaza ukuthandwa kwe-sauna ngokuqhuba amasiko amnyama.
Ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni ungakheli ibhafu kunyaka wokuqhafaza, kubalulekile ukubonisa inani eliqhelekileyo lomqondiso, ngokubhekiselele kwisakhiwo esiza kutshisa ngenxa yezizathu ezingachazwanga. Oku kusebenza nakwezinye izakhiwo, ngoko qalisa ukwakha ngeli xesha alifanelekanga. Kukholelwa ukuba umntu akanako ukwakha ibhebha kunyaka wokuqhawula, kuba abantu abawela kwisakhiwo esinjalo baya kugula kakhulu okanye bafe.
Kukho isithethe esiya kuvumela ukuba kuthathe ingxaki ngexesha lokwakha. Ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe, kuyimfuneko ukuza kwindawo apho kucetywayo khona ukubeka igumbi ngosuku lokuqala lwenyanga, ubambe iswekile esandleni sakhe sokunene, kwaye ngakwesokunene, ityuwa. Ukuqubuda kumacala onke, kwaye ke, yenza isangqa ngokujikeleza kwindawo ephawulwe yetyuwa. Ngaphandle kwetshukela yesangqa efunyenweyo ityelela umnxeba umnxeba ngokutyelela. Ekupheleni kwesithethe, uya kuguqa kwakhona, uye ekhaya ngaphandle kokujonga emva.
Njengoko kwathiwa, ngeqhosha
- Awukwazi ukuqhawula umtshato, kuba kuya kufuneka ube noluncedo bonke ubomi bakho;
- Akuvumelekile ukuthengisa iinkomo - ukuhlupheka;
- umntwana kunye nezinyo zokuqala akakwazi ukuboniswa kunoma ubani, njengoko amazinyo aya kuphazamisa;
- Awukwazi ukuguqula imisebenzi - akukho nto iya kusebenza kwindawo entsha.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, wonke umntu unelungelo lokugqiba ukuba ngaba wakha ibhafu kunyaka wokunyuka okanye cha, kodwa khumbula nje ukuba iingcinga zichaphazela ukunyaniseka, kwaye ukuba uhlala ucinga ukuba into embi iya kwenzeka, ngoko siya kucinga ngokuqinisekileyo.