Ixesha elide lomkhombe luvame ukuphazamisa ukhathazeka kunye nokwesaba ezintliziyweni zethu. Nangona ungaziqhelani kakuhle nembono yabantu, mhlawumbi uvile ukuba ukubetha kwenja akulungile. Makhe sibone indlela abantu abayichaza ngayo.
Ewe, ukususela kwangoko, okhokho bethu bakholelwa ukuba inja ayayize ikhulelwe ngaphandle kwesizathu. Impawu zabantu zi:
- ukuba inja iyabhoxa ngelixa ikhangele indlu - oku kungachazwa nje ngokuba ngumphambili wokuba okanye nokuba ngumlilo;
- Xa ekhwaza, njengengcuka, kwenyanga - ukutshintsha kwemozulu. Ukuqhaqhazela kwenyanga kuyinxalenye yeengxaki;
- inja ikhwele ngentloko yayo-uphawu olubi kakhulu lomntu, ukufa endlwini yendlu;
- kwaye ukuba inja iyakhala, iphakamise ikhanda layo - emlilweni. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kungabonakalisa ukufa kokufa komnye wabamelwane;
- igcina intloko yakhe ngqo-kunokwenzeka ukuba ubeka imfazwe okanye kwindlala;
- Ukuba inja iyamanga, ithetha ukuba ivakalelwa ngokukhawuleza.
Ewe, ukwazi izibonakaliso ezinjalo, uyazibuza ngokukhawuleza xa uva ilizwi elibi. Nangona kunjalo, umntu makangacingisise ukuba iimpawu zabantu ayisoloko ziqwalasela ukuba kutheni inja iholela. Ngamanye amaxesha isilwanyana sibuhlungu xa sishiye sisodwa. Ukuba inja ayiphili kwindawo yokuhlala, kodwa endlwini, mhlawumbi uya "kukhwaza" aze aphule, alahleke amakhosi akhe.
Inja ikhwelo - yintoni yokwenza?
Ukuba inkunzi yekhanda inganiki uxolo, kubalulekile ukuzikhusela wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho:
- kubantu kukho kwakhona iqhinga elikhethekileyo lokulila. Ingxaki yokudlulela indlu yakho, phuma isango (okanye nje ukusuka) uze uphinde kwakhona kathathu: "Hamba, kungekhona kweli sangweni! Inja ikhwelo, kodwa vumela umoya uvuthe! Enyanisweni! ";
- ukuba uvile ukuba inja iyamemeza , kwaye uyayesaba into embi, uye ecaweni. Beka ikhandlela zempilo, wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho, kwaye xa usendlini yomntu ogulayo - yenze i-sorokoust.
Ezinye iimpawu
Ngendlela, kukho imiqondiso emihle ehambelana nabahlobo abane bomlenze bomntu. Ngoko, umzekelo, kucingwa ukuba:
- Ukuba inja engaphandle ikhubeka ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yakho, ke lo mqondiso olungileyo. Isilwanyana sasinomdla olungileyo;
- wabona ezintathu izinja ezigqatshileyo (ezilungele zonke izinja) ngokukhawuleza - kwintlanka;
- ukuba inja iyagijima, imi kuyo yonke imilenze - kwindlela efanelekileyo;
- ENgilani kucatshangelwa ukuba ukubona inja emnyama nomhlophe okanye ebalabala endleleni eya kwintlanganiso yezoshishino, ibonisa umphumo ophumeleleyo wamatyala (eNdiya, nangona kunjalo, umbono ochaseneyo);
- Ukubetha inja kunokumisela intlanganiso kunye nomhlobo omhle;
- kunye nemidlalo yeenja, ngokutsho kweenkolelo ezidumileyo, - kumtshato osheshayo !
Kholwa kwiimpawu ezilungileyo!