Makhe sicinge ukuba kutheni umntwana ezithintela entloko xa efumana intlungu enzima.
Iyiphi isizathu sale mpawu?
Ukuzenzekela ngokuzenzekelayo kubonakaliswe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: abantwana banokuzibethela ngokwabo amathoyizi okanye ezinye izinto ebusweni okanye entanyeni, kwaye kwiimeko ezinzima baze balwe nomgangatho okanye iindonga. Ngethuba elifanayo, izizathu apho umntwana ezithintela kanzima entloko zihlukeneyo:
- Iingqungquthela zebhokhwe ezinxamnye nokugunyaza ngokwegunya labantwana . Ngokukodwa oku kuziphatha kubonakala kwiminyaka emibili okanye emithathu , xa unyana okanye intombi eyaziwayo njengomntu ozimeleyo kwaye ebonisa ukungavumelani kwabo ngokukhululeka kunye nokuqatha okukhulu kwabantu abaninzi.
- Ukuba umama okanye utata uhlala ecaphukisa umntwana, ebonisa ukuba uyingozi, ulahlekile, njl., Umntwana omncinci uyazibetha entloko ngenxa yokuziva unetyala. Ngaloo ndlela, ubonakala evumelana nombono ongathandeki ngabazali, ngokuzimela ngokuzimela.
- Isizathu sokuba kutheni umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa okanye omdala azibethe entloko,
mhlawumbi ukuba ufuna ukubeka ingqalelo kwamanye amalungu entsapho, kuba nomsindo ukufumana oko akufunayo. - Iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, ezinjengokufuduka okanye ukuxabana kwentsapho, kubangela ukuba umntwana ongekho uxinzelelo lwangaphakathi, ngenxa yobudala, alukwazi kwaye akakwazi ukuchaza ngokucacileyo. Kule meko, ukuqiqa ukuba kutheni umntwana ezithi azibethe intloko kulula.
- Ezi zihlandlo zivame ukubonwa kubantwana abanokuphuhliswa okungaqhelekanga. Ukuze ukwazi kakuhle ukuba kutheni umntwana ehlala ezingela entloko, kuyafaneleka ukuba uhlolisise kunye neengcali zokuphambuka.