Ukuqhathaniswa nomntu othandayo akusoloko kumnandi kwaye kubuhlungu. Abaninzi emva kokuba isiganeko sithuba eside sidityaniswe. Ukuba abantu baphupha ukuhlukana ngokufanelekileyo emva kwimeko enjalo ebomini bokwenene, ngoko akufanele bawuchazwe, kuba oku kukubonakalisa amava angaphakathi. Ukuqulunqwa kwemigaqo kufuneka kuqalwe xa konke kulungile kwaye amaphupha ebomini adidekile kwaye amangalise.
Kutheni sifuna ukuhlukana nomntu othandekayo?
Enye yeencwadi zephupha ikholelwa ukuba iphupha elinjalo, ngokuchaseneyo, lubonisa ukuba abathandi bayakuhlala kunye kunye kwaye bevuya. Ukuba umntu uziva edabukile kwaye akhala ngokubi ngenxa yokuhlukana, lo ngumqondiso obonisa ukuba impumelelo ebomini bakhe. Abafazi abangatshatanga nje iphupha li-harbinger yentlanganiso kunye nomntu ofanelekileyo. Siza kuqonda ukuba kutheni amaphupha okuhlukana nomntu othandekayo, engabangela ukudakumba nokuzisola, luphawu lweengxaki ezincinane. Kwakhona kungabonakalisa ukuba ngokwenene iimvakalelo ziye zacima ngokwenene, kwaye lixesha lokuvuma ukuba liwuphelise. Kwezinye iincwadi zokuphupha ukuhlukana nomntu othandekayo kuthetha ukuba ngeli xesha umphuphi kwinqanaba elincincileyo wenqaba into ebalulekileyo.
Ukuchazwa kwephupha into yokuba ukuhlukana nomntu owayehamba ngokuthula ngaphandle kokwahlukana kubonakala ngathi ukutolika, njengesinconywa, ukuba umntu uhlalutye ubudlelwane obukhoyo , kuba yonke into ayilungile njengoko kubonakala ngathi. Ukuba ukuhlukana kwinqanaba leliphupha kunye ne-scandals kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kwezinto, ngokobomi bokwenene isisombululo kuphela sokujongana neengxaki eziye zavela kukuthatha inxaxheba. Kwezinye iimeko, amaphupha okuhlukana avela xa intombazana idla ngokucinga
Kutheni sifuna ukuhlukana nomyeni wakhe?
Isalathiso esinjalo singasebenza njengesigxina sokuthi ngexesha lobudlelwane bokwenene kunye neqabane lakho kukho iingxaki ezifanele zixazululwe. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuxubusha yonke into kwindawo ekhululekile ukwenzela ukuba ingabinzima ingxaki.
Kutheni sifuna ukuhlukana nokutshatyalaliswa kwendoda?
Eli phupha libonisa njengokuba kukho intombazana engathandabuzekiyo ngokunyaniseka kweemvakalelo zakhe ezikhethiweyo. U-Sopnik uthi ukwenzeka ukwesaba kuya kuqinisekiswa.