Xa kufika ihlobo lehlobo, abazali bathenga izicathulo ezifanelekileyo kubantwana abancinci, njengommiselo, banamathotholo enqabileyo ekhumba okuya kunamathela kwiinyawo kwaye bangawuthinteli umsebenzi we-motor fidget. Kodwa ukuba uceba uhambo olwandle, kufuneka uqaphele ukuthenga izicathulo zaselwandle. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke ezinye azixhaswanga ngokungahambi kakuhle kunye nokulimala, ukukhethwa kwezicathulo zasebhantshi kubantwana kufuneka kuhanjiswe ngokufanelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuthobela iingqalelo ezilandelayo:
- Abantwana ababetha iinqatyambo okanye iinqatyambo zamabhantshi kufuneka bakhethwe ngobunzima benyawo, ngaphandle koko unyawo luya kuhlala ludla, luhlangane entlabathi okanye ngamacwecwe kwaye ngenxa yoko umntwana uya kuhlala ewa;
- Abantwana akunakwenzeka ukuba bahambe ngeenyawo ecaleni lolwandle ngokubhekiselele kumgca wefowuni, eli qiniso lifanele liqwalaselwe xa ukhetha izicathulo - iiflethi ezivulekileyo kunye neflip fp flops mhlawumbi ayiyi kuhambelana nefidget encinane. Abancinci abancinci abasafuni ukuba bajonge phantsi kweenyawo zabo, ngoko-ke kwizicathulo ezivulekileyo zibeka ingozi, zikhubekile entlabathi kwilazi, kwintsimbi okanye kwezinye iindawo. Ungafanelanga isiVietnam kunye neflip flops abathandi ukuqhubela ibhola elunxwemeni-ngexesha lomncintiswano baya kulahleka. Inketho efanelekileyo yilezi zicathulo ze-aqua zezilwanyana ezikhethekileyo-ezi zihlangule zokuzihlamba ezivaliweyo, ezithembekileyo ngokukhusela imilenze emonakalweni, isici sabo kukuba i-aqua-shirts akudingeki isuswe ngexesha lokuhlamba. Oku, kunjalo, yinto eyongezelelweyo yokuthuthuzela;
- ukuziphatha kunye nokukhathazeka - ukhetha, masithi, iinqwelo zearubha zezingane, kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwiindawo ezinokuthi "zibuthathaka" - iingcambu ezincitshisiweyo, indawo zokunqanda, ukungaqiniseki kwedwa, okungaba yincinci ngokusebenzisana rhoqo kunye namanzi;
- yedwa - ukuba ulwandle luhamba, lufanele lube lukhulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntwana ahambe ngokukhululekile ngamatye, kodwa kungekhona
enzima kakhulu-kangangokuthi "akayi kudonsa" izihlangu emva kwakhe. Ukongezelela, kufuneka kube yintsholongwane-ibe yizimbadada okanye i-slaps kubantwana, umphezulu wecala kufuneka utyumle ukuze umntwana angakwazi ukugwema ukuwa emaphethelweni echibini okanye kumanzi aphuliweyo; - ukuyila - kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana omdala kunye nomntwana osemtsha, ofuna ukukhangela isitayela.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwiidada ezinxweme, njengaye nawuphi na, kufuneka ufunde. Kodwa ukuba umntwana uhlahlela rhoqo kwaye akhononde malunga nokuphazamiseka, kufuneka ucinge ngokuthenga enye ibini.