Umntwana oneminyaka ezisibhozo sele ehlala esikolweni. Ngoko ke, akukho xesha elininzi lokukhulula le midlalo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ngexesha elifanayo, akusayi kufuna ukunikwa okufutshane kunye nokulawulwa kubazali, kuba inokudlala ngokuzimela. Umama noba banenkxalabo malunga nombuzo wokuthatha umntwana oneminyaka engama-8 ubudala.
Ngethuba lehlobo, kunokwenzeka ukulungiselela ukutyelelwa komntwana kwikampu yabantwana, ngokuqhelekileyo kusekelwe kwiiNdlu zoBugcisa okanye zifumaneka ngqo kwisikolo. Kule nkampu, ootitshala abaqeqeshiweyo baququzelele ukuphumla komntwana ngokuhambelana nenqanaba lophuhliso lwe-psychophysic kunye neemfuno zalo.
Kwiinkampu kukho iindidi ezahlukeneyo zezemidlalo kunye nezijikelezo ezahlukeneyo:
- ubugcisa obuhle;
- ukulinganisa;
- ukudansa;
- umculo;
- iilwimi zangaphandle;
- isangqa.
Umntwana uhlala ixesha elifutshane kwenkampu. Kule meko, abazali ngezinye iinkhathi abazi ukuba benzani nomntwana oneminyaka eyi-8 ekhaya.
Yintoni yokuzonwabisa umntwana oneminyaka eyi-8 ekhaya?
AmaMama kunye nabantwana baququzelela isikhala sokungcebeleka komntwana nanini na. Ngoko ke, kukho imidlalo enomdla neyolisayo ekhaya.
Kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-8 ubudala kwindlu ongayithenga le midlalo elandelayo:
- imidlalo yebhodi (i-twister, monopoly);
- abakhi;
- iipuzzle;
- Ukuphuhlisa imisebenzi yabantwana abaneminyaka engama-8: iipuzzle, iigrafle, iincwadi ezinemibala;
- ukuphulaphula iincwadi zomsindo kunye namabali;
- isetyenzisiweyo esilungele ukudala;
- le nkwenkwe inokunikezwa ukuba yenze imifanekiso yakhe yemoto okanye yenza imveliso yemidlalo , intombazana - ukunqumla iimpahla kwiphepha kwididobhodi yekhadibhodi, ukwenza imveliso yamakhadibhodi okanye imbewu kunye nezityalo .
Kutheni uthabatha umntwana kwisitalato?
Kwimozulu elungileyo, unokunika umntwana wakho ukukhwela ibhayisikili, i-roller okanye i-scooter. Yonke intsapho iya ku-zoo okanye iqhube iindawo ezikhangayo.
Yintoni enokuyifunda kumntwana oneminyaka eyi-8?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abanqweneli ukufunda, kodwa ukufunda kuyimfuneko ekuphuculeni ngokupheleleyo nokuzaliswa ngokupheleleyo komntwana. Unokucinga ngomncinci omncinci kumntwana wakho, eya kuwufumana emva kokufunda inani elithile lamaphepha. Ungaphakamisa emva kokufunda le ncwadi ukubuyisela okubhalwe kwimixholo okanye ibali, kwaye udwebe ibali elisekelwe kwizinto ezifundwayo.
Yintoni ekubonayo umntwana oneminyaka eyi-8 kwiTV?
Ukuba uvumela ukubukela iTVD kumntwana oneminyaka ezisibhozo ubudala, ngoko unokufaka iipatto zakho ezizithandayo okanye ifilimu efundisa ngemvelo, ukusebenza komzimba womntu okanye ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwihlabathi. Ezi ifilimu ziyakwazi ukuthatha umntwana ixesha elide. Emva kokubukela, ungammema ukuba atye umfanekiso wesesihloko, esakhankanywe kulo mboniso.
Nangona kunjalo, musa ukuvumela umntwana ukuba abukele iTV ixesha elide, njengoko oku kwandisa umthwalo emehlweni, engathandeki ebuntwaneni. Ukuze kube lula, unokubeka phambi kwakhe i-hourglass okanye iwashi ye-alamu, eyokukukhupha xa uvala iTV.
Ngamnye wethu unakho ikhompyutha ekhaya. Abazali banokuvumela umntwana ukuba adlale imidlalo yekhompyutha, kodwa kwakhona
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba uza kubandakanyeka umntwana eneminyaka engama-8 ubudala, ungakhohlwa ukuba ngaphezu kokuzonwabisa kubantwana abayi-8 ubudala abazali kufuneka bazinze ithuba lokuba benze imisebenzi elula yemihla ngemihla. Oku kutyilisa iintyatyambo, nokusula uthuli, nokuhambisa iincwadi kwieshelufu zabo. Kubalulekile ukuxubusha kwangaphambili nomntwana inani lomsebenzi owenziweyo kunye nexesha apho kufuneka ayenze khona. Ulwaphulo olunjalo lomsebenzi luyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yokwakhiwa kokuzimela kunye noxanduva kumntwana.