Utywala lotywala yingxaki eqhelekileyo kwaye indoda yokuphuza iyintlungu ebantwini. Kule meko, bonke abantu abasondeleyo bayahlupheka, ngoko kubalulekile ukufumana indlela yokulahla ingxaki. Ukuqwalasela indlela yokwenza oko ukuze umyeni angaphuzi, kuyafaneleka ukunikela iingceba, ezisetyenziswa kumaxesha amandulo. Imirhumo kufuneka yenziwe ngexesha lokunyuka kwenyanga kunye neentsuku zomntu, oko kukuthi, ngoMvulo, uLwesibini kunye neLwesine. Kubalulekile ukuba ungaxeleli nabani malunga nokusebenzisa umlingo kunye nomlingane.
Uqhetseba kwisithombeni ukuze indoda yakhe ingaphuzi
Umfanekiso kufuneka uthathwe phambi kwesiko, ukuze ube namandla amasha. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukulungiselela amakhanda amathathu ecawa kunye namanzi angcwele. Ngelanga lokukhanya, ukhanyisa amakhandlela uze uwabeke phambi kwakho ngokulandelana. Beka isithombe somyeni wakho eceleni kwakhe kwaye usipholise ngamanzi angcwele, uxelele icebo lokusela utywala ukuze umyeni wakho angaphuzi:
"INkosi uThixo ingcwele, ndincede! Ndifuna ukususa ukuxhomekeka kumkhonzi kaThixo (igama), Uqhinga lokusela, Mphuze, uyiphumelele kotywala . Ukunyuka kwevodka emqaleni, akazange ahambe, kuye kuye njengedemon ebalekile, Ngaphezulu kwamanzi, amanzi awazange aye kuye nantoni na! Ilizwi lam linamandla kwaye linamandla, ilizwi lam ngumthetho kumkhonzi kaThixo (igama). Amen! "
Iqhinga liphindaphinda kathathu, kwaye ke, lifihla isithombe kwindawo eyimfihlo, ukuze kungabikho mntu ongayifumana. Isithethe siya kuqala ukusebenza ngokukhawuleza emva kwesiganeko. Ukuba iziphumo azizange zivele ngenyanga, kufuneka uphinda uphinde uphinde.
Iqhinga elinamandla kangangokuba umyeni wam akasayi kusela emangcwabeni
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba iindawo zamangcwaba ziyimilingo emnyama, kodwa zikhona nemigangatho emhlophe engabonakali nantoni na. Ukuze uphumelele, kufuneka uthabathe ibhotile yesiselo sakho sokunxilisayo kwaye uye emangcwabeni. Kubalulekile ukuma phambi kwamangcwaba amasango kwaye ulinde umgca wokuqala wokungcwaba. Emva koko, kufuneka uthi la magama:
"Njengomntu ofileyo ofile, akahlali phakathi kwabantu emhlabeni, ngoko indoda yam isithandwa sam, isigqila sikaThixo (igama lomyeni) asisayi kusela utywala obubi. Amen. "
Kanye emva koko, kulungele ukuya ekhaya ngaphandle kokujika kwaye ungathethi mntu. Ekhaya, faka ibhotile ukuze umyeni angayifumana kwaye ayisele. Awukwazi ukunikezela ngotywala kwiqabane lakho. Ukususela kumva atywala, isiko siya kuqala ukusebenza. Ukuphinda amathuba amashishini akanakwenzeka nangona ukuba ayiphumelelanga.